I find myself tired going to date with girls only to find on first or second date that she can't properly take care of me in bed. Like she isn't used to facefucking and visibly cant handle it or she isnt that kinky even when being submissive which makes me bored quite easily.

I really love good head to the point that i'm not willing to have sex with a women even if she cook for me if she cant do this the way i like. Is there even solution to this? I could straight away telling her what i like but to majority of women that kind of straightness scares them away (not high enough SMV i guess).