Hello guys,

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for close to a year now. I’m heading to my last year of highschool while he’s going to be a freshman in college. He’s been amazing the whole time we’ve been together and I’m very in love with him. I’m just a little anxious about the future of my relationship a little.

This whole time he’s been perfect. He’s very caring, protective, loving, and we just connect very well. I’m just kinda scared since he’s going to college of course he’s going to be surrounded by very pretty women. He’s a very sociable and naturally flirty person, he likes going to parties and things and like that so I’m just just a little nervous he’s going to want to be with other girls. He’s been with many girls before me so I hope of course he doesn’t revert to those things again. He’s very attractive too so he’s had many girls try to hit on him.I know for sure he won’t cheat or anything but I’m just scared he’ll want to break up to experience the “college life” and women or whatever other bs people say.

I’m not conventionally attractive but he’s really attracted to me. I guess it might be the love goggles they say. He always says how attractive I am and he really likes me barefaced. Like I said above, he’s never wronged me or anything in our relationship. There’s been two instances so so instances you can see in my post history but it’s not really a big deal since we’ve talked about it. He’s very sweet to me. Like meeting him has literally changed my whole life. My confidence, self esteem, just everything has just improved having him in my life. I’ve dealt with many issues within my family and bullying among personal issues as well. He tries his best at making me happy and just adds so much value to my life.

Another reason I may feel a little insecure could be of the way the relationship started. He was fine with being just very emotionally intimate fwbs while I obviously wanted to be official. Eventually, we talked about it and he agreed eventually. We speak extensively of our future together. Like living together, marriage, children and other things like that. Like I know if it was for me we would stay together forever and fulfill all the things we speak of. I know he cares for me and loves me but there’s always a tiny chance everything changes. Like I’ve heard of it from many different places and I know there will always be a tiny chance our relationship falls apart.

We spend So much time together, he’s literally my best friend and I don’t want to lose him. He’s been just perfect and is definitely a hvm throughout our relationship. I just feel a little anxious about the possibility of our relationship ending. Like I know it’s just me exaggerating and I’m just naturally an anxious person. But can anyone relate? Or any advice. I mean I have other friends that I of course met from his circle. I’m a little scared my life would revert to the way it was before I met him. It was overall not a very good time and I’m doing much better.I just would greatly prefer not to lose him obviously

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you all.