I’ve been on a local r4r subreddit to ask someone to play a game with me. It doesn’t matter what game it is but long story short a girl initiated a message here to play. I want to learn more about it so that I can somehow bond with my younger brother more. The game is mobile legends or some shit, it’s like Dota or LoL. I got alot of time this quarantine so I gave it a try. I’m 19 so still young, while she’s 20.

We went on telegram to talk and decided to play one game, she gave me tips on how to play well and guided me through the match. I do not intend to flirt with this woman so I did not apply RP or any game on her. I felt like we were just playing and she’s teaching me. Like fucking kids.

After we won the game, we talked for a few minutes later on tg. She told me to buy items like these, strategies, bullshit, etc. I was actually listening to her, like a mentor on this game. But then she deleted the whole convo when I woke up the next day. I’m confused as to why but I didn’t give a shit. Still messaged her about how I can improve on it. I also mentioned to her that I played this game a few years back, but I only did it for my crush (bp days).

Few chats and replies later, she tells me that she can’t teach me no more. I said that’s okay, I won’t ask many questions. But asked her if we can play later. She told me that she doesn’t have the patience of teaching me anything. Told me to cut this shit off and never play with her again. Also told me to go play with my crush or someone else better at playing.

I am utterly fucking confused as of this point. We’re not even flirting, I just needed tips about this shitty ass game. Yet she was aggressive AF all of the sudden. I don’t give a damn about her, but what the hell just happened? After that conversation I felt like shit for no sane reason.

I know this sounds VERY PETTY. But I don’t understand it, and I want to avoid this type of shit in the future. Maybe with my female boss or mentor.