Does your SO have a say in what you wear?

Okay965 · 2018-08-14T10:13:35+00:00

Mainly, he wants me to dress modestly and respectably. That's the most important thing to him - he doesn't like slutty or attention-seeking looks.

He doesn't like me wearing dresses or skirts unless we are out together. So I save those for him, and don't wear them for errands etc.

He's not big on too much ruffle, floral, brocade, lace, traditionally "girly" looks. He seems to find them both dated and too kiddy.

He seems to prefer classic, clean patterns like stripes and polka dots. He likes sparkly things, flash and a bit of bling. He likes me to look expensive, business-like, sophisticated, and slightly retro / vintage - in a pin-up, Saint-Tropez in the 1950s sort of way.

My hair is long, wavy, and ombre brown and blond - but he's dying for me to cut it into a sleeker, short-to-mid-length bob. I'm doing so after our wedding. :)

okayestwifey · 2018-08-14T16:40:29+00:00

So funnily enough, my husband actually prefers a much more casual/tomboyish look than what I like to wear. So it's an odd place to be in. He still really likes a feminine look when it comes to hair/makeup, but if I wore jeans and a tied up flannel shirt every day, he'd be in heaven.

LaneysWorld2 · 2018-08-14T01:18:50+00:00

My husband doesn’t care when I’m just at home but when we go out together he cares a lot! Everything from my hair down to my shoes needs to be nice. He does, buy me nice things to wear so it’s not like I have to invest in those things.

I don’t mind it but some gal friends thinks it’s kind of crazy.

ragnarockette · 2018-08-16T00:57:34+00:00

My husband and I are both into fashion and I know my husband likes me to look elegant and expensive. He considers things like leggings, Ugg boots, cotton maxi dresses, etc. to be "basic bitch style" and would definitely dislike if I wore them. We always try to look like a "power couple" when we are going out and are often the most dressy people at any given venue.

He definitely responds to sexier elements like sheer tights, low-cut necklines, or flimsy spaghetti straps. I always try and do it in a classy way rather than tacky way. If you look in my post history you can see my wedding photos to get an idea for our style.

However, he doesn't really say much about what I wear other than to give me compliments. :)

19_LadyScarlet_90 · 2018-08-15T06:48:36+00:00

My husband prefers me in leggings, girly tops & boots. He's also good with the jeans/t-shirt look. He prefers both of those outfits over skirts/dresses. He likes me best with my hair up, I prefer myself hair down, so I alternate back & forth. He likes me to keep my toenails painted & appreciates that I wear jewelry. Sometimes, when we go out, he'll request a specific outfit. Over all, he likes my style, & usually tells me I look nice regardless of what I'm wearing ♡

fitbarbie123 · 2018-08-16T23:18:11+00:00

Title	Does your SO have a say in what you wear?
Author	LaneysWorld2
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	August 14, 2018 1:06 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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