Still Feel Upset

MoDuReddit · 2018-09-17T18:03:06+00:00

Does he do this habitually? Is this how he treats you often? Or did he just have a few too many, and this came out of the blue?

If he was just drunker and brasher than normal, I'd drop it. If it happens again, address it.

GettingMyShitInOrder · 2018-09-17T23:44:00+00:00

I used to get really upset about this sort of thing till I found out it was just a way that guys like to push buttons and see how far he can push you.

It doesn't sound very lady like but I tend to turn that stuff around on my SO and it ended up being more of a play fighting thing. I think he respects me more for dishing it right back than compared to when I would get insecure and upset over it. Obviously some things I don't joke about (dick size, past relationships etc) but my SO would have never made it that far making jokes about my body. If I was in your situation I would have said something like "sure you can have her as long as I can have ____ wrestler." And my SO would have already dropped the subject.

Suddenly I'm "feisty" now, and it's made me that much more attractive to him. When I was insecure about it, it was as if I demonstrated that my SMV was lower than he thought it was. I mean don't get cocky but don't be afraid to joke back.

dian_slay26 · 2018-09-17T18:51:47+00:00

I can see how this could hurt your feelings. If you were talking about threesomes and banging some other man on the tv, I’m sure he wouldn’t tolerate it at all. Plus calling your ass “cottage cheese” doesn’t seem like a compliment any way you slice it.

If this is how he acts pretty often (getting drunk, talking up other women and slick putting you down) I’d break up with him, because... red flags abound.

If this was the first time he’s done this, and when you brought it to his attention he expressed a genuine apology, I’d chalk it up to bad drinking behavior. As long as it doesn’t happen again, I’d let that hurt go.

aussiedollface2 · 2018-09-20T07:19:08+00:00

He called your butt cottage cheese?!? Damn, he really does not know how to talk to women. I’m sorry OP, I would be hurt too xo

dian_slay26 · 2018-09-17T19:07:59+00:00

That’s what I said in my second point

Title	Still Feel Upset
Author	IndependentAstronaut
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	September 17, 2018 5:56 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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