How do you know if you should be dating ?

dzgata · 2020-03-07T06:16:56+00:00

It’s up to you, but whatever you do don’t allow a LVM to affect your grades or your decisions regarding your career path. If you’re headstrong and have strong boundaries then go ahead. If you know you’re not quite there yet, there’s nothing wrong with waiting.

2020-03-07T07:49:34+00:00

I didn't date until I turned 28.

In highschool I didn't have a car and didn't want to have to rely on anyone's parents to get us around. In college I was focused on what I was doing and didn't meet anyone I was interested in. After that I was really stressed out because I developed anxiety and my job was.... Weird and toxic as hell but I thought I needed to stay for the money. I then learned that I am actually a really valuable employee. I got on meds for my anxiety and left tmy job. I then felt ready to date.

Then I dated someone who made me relive childhood trauma and I backed away from daring again.

Then I worked through that.

Now I am open to dating, but am hesitant to be on dating apps again. For now I'm just hoping to meet someone in person.

Taking time after an ex to work on yourself is a great idea! Try focusing on what went wrong or right and then try and work on emotionally healing so that the bad things are avoided in the future.

PurblWasp · 2020-03-07T15:55:54+00:00

You definitely need more time rn. 19 is very young, stay single for a year or more even and invest in yourself, learn to live with yourself. Men at 19 or 20 just aren't ready to commit anyway nowadays.

Once you had a glow up and are confident in yourself, you can start looking for someone who adds to your already great life.

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