Abuse is abuse. You don’t own your partner sex, even if your married or in a long-term relationship.

timetofliptables · 2020-02-19T14:04:32+00:00

I’m my early 20s I was in love with my college sweetheart. He was amazing on paper. My family loved him. However, he would literally blow up if I declined sex. I had to get cops involved so many times because he would go into a legit physical and emotional rage when I denied him. I finally kicked him to the curb in 2016. I’m still healing from the trauma that caused me emotionally. Never ever stay with a man that can’t control his sexual urges. That screams low value.

2020-02-19T01:38:13+00:00

Mrs Lyons knows what's up. Dump that loser.

ivy176 · 2020-02-19T13:13:34+00:00

There are some incels I was replying to on here who were saying it's not possible to rape your wife or girlfriend, it's just really rude or a dick move to force somebody to do something. It was like... I'm not condoning his behaviour, it was totally wrong! But cumming in someone's mouth and just putting your hand on her head is NOT rape!! That's so dangerous to accuse him of that. She agreed to giving him a bj!!

TOTALLY chosing to ignore that this girl told her bf prior that he cannot ejaculate in her mouth and tried to pull away when she suspected he might be getting close but he held her head down and wouldn't let her get away and did it. SOME GUYS DON'T VIEW THINGS LIKE THAT AS SEXUAL ASSAULT OR RAPE. It's really scary.

Then who I REALLY HOPE are total trolls saying men should not need to "work" for sex and it should be given unconditionally, that a wife should have sex any time even if the guy is abusive and has terrible hygiene. I assume they're trolling but who knows with how many wackos are out there.

Lizadeviza · 2020-02-19T14:40:25+00:00

If you are with someone that doesn't give you sex and you can't deal with it then just break up with them. It's as simple as that. Something like sex should be a mutual benefit with clear communication and boundaries. No exceptions.

Title	Abuse is abuse. You don’t own your partner sex, even if your married or in a long-term relationship.
Author	thestemgorl_
Upvotes	147
Comments	6
Date	February 19, 2020 12:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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