I've got drinks with a girl twice last week. I paid the first time, she paid the second time. Both times she's all over me but we both don't live in the city (both work there) so end location is bad. She suggests a hotel in the city this weekend. She gets the hotel, we go out that night and when we get back i escalate but she says she doesn't sleep with people until she dates them. I've read about LMR and ASD so I back off and then re-escalate etc but still insists on "her rules". End up leaving the next morning with no success.

Any ideas on why this was the case? i don't understand why she'd want to get a hotel and expect nothing to happen. Just need a different perspective.