I visited my friend and he told me even his ex 3 yr relationships never visited him unless it was for her purpose such as exchange student etc. anyways, I went to Sweden and decided to goto munich again to see him and majorly for other reasons, but I didn’t want him to mistook it as I’m going there to see him so I lied. I lied to him that I leftmy green card at hotel and had to go back there again. After a day , I felt guilty and told him the truth. He called me a stalker and I was so hurt and till this day I don’t know why I had to be called a stalker. I never asked about his personal and private issues. Nor did I goto his place unless he invited and that’s when I realized I’ll stop doing any pick me stuffs fornmen.