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Here’s the deal, my name, I met his wife, and immediately busted my ass to spend time with her. I wanted to be the thing occupying her day dreams. That can sound like a joke coming from me but I fucking mean it.

Remember when y’all would face time me and be like “damn we haven’t seen or heard from you in weeks” and I’d be like “I’ll come see y’all soon” and then we’d repeat that same thing again a month or so later?

It’s because I was with wife’s name. I’ve dated girls for years and never went on 2% of the dates I have with wife. I wouldn’t have said it at the time because I honestly didn’t form this thought in my word-brain, but it’s because they weren’t worth it to me.

Dating IS hard sometimes from just a logistical perspective. I had to drive 30 minutes to an hour just to get to where name was and I had to go through Large city we live near to get there and I fucking hate driving in large city

I had to spend lots of money but I didn’t fucking care because having a good time with wife or putting a smile on her face was worth MORE to me than the money and time and effort I was investing.

I mean I could go on and on about all that stuff but I literally left my entire fucking country and family and moved 5000 miles away and learned an entire new language and married a girl and drove her and her 8 siblings and parents to a wedding in Italy. It’s been like 15 months since we met.

My Point in saying all that to you in response to your voice message is this and I’m sorry in advance because you know I love you and it kills me to have to tell you this, but you need to hear it: When a man loves a woman, there’s no obstacle that will stop him.

I have had girls cry and beg and plead with me to do things that I never did and I really truly thought “I’m just not that lovey dovey type of guy” but my name, the naked truth is that WE ALL ARE. Those girls just straight up we’re not worth it to me. That’s what it is.

I cook vegan food for wife. I told all my exes i hated cooking and never even tried She will never walk to work again in her life. I was annoyed every time I had to pick girls up back home. She’ll never have to worry about something being broken in her home again. When have you ever known me to be the handy type?

And that brings me to the next harsh truth and this some shit our mostly terrible uncle said, but it’s the truest shit of all time: “WHEN YOU HAVE TRULY HAD ENOUGH, YOU WALK AWAY.”

So you crying about all the things my EX bf said or did or didn’t say or didn’t do blah blah blah. So the fuck what. Your words don’t matter. Words never matter. Actions matter. You can literally, right now, stop reading this text and just leave. You have places to go. Hell if you needed me to come back now and help you move, I’d get on a plane to do it.

You’re no victim of Your own life you have agency and choices. Remember how Ma “demanded” I stay in the country? Lol everybody fucking laughed when she said it because y’all KNEW I was gonna do what I was gonna do and accept the consequences. Period.

What you’re doing is saying my ex would you punch my arm for $50?” And he’s like “hell yeah”. So then you give him $50 and he punches you, and then you demand he stop punching you AS YOU HAND HIM THE NEXT $50.

It’s just different my name. I remember telling girls I wasn’t sure if I wanted kids but now wife is pregnant and don’t tell anyone else yet we’re gonna skype on Christmas to tell everybody at once. We’re gonna have a big family. I’m gonna provide the best possible life I can for them. I don’t feel burdened by this my name I’m fucking excited to do it. I’m like a Chick Fil A employee and she just ordered from me and said “thank you” because it’s my fucking pleasure to do this stuff.

You deserve this, but you will only get it if the man you’re with thinks so too. If he doesn’t think so, throw his ass out the window and forget he exists in the very next moment.