Hi, this might be long but I need help in the dating world. I am a 21 yo woman and I feel as though every relationship I am in I am always giving a lot and getting left in the deep end. oftentimes I find myself with men that I drive to and from, pay half (maybe even full sometimes) of things, am constantly needing to message first or gain their attention, etc. I am less of a desired partner and more of a buddy. How can I find men who in a relationship would like to spoil me and treat me as special as I would treat them? Please help, thank you.