Does anyone else feel like hating on women and abusing and sexually degrading women is a HUGE part of male bonding, if not the primary part. It seems like a loophole that lets them bond without feeling 'gay'.
I think part of the backlash against men seeing us as people is that they will lose one of the main forms of homo-social bonding they feel most comfortable with as its the only form of intimacy that doesn't threaten their masculinity.
And since this is a generational form of bonding a lot of them feel like they're losing out on some sort of male legacy when they get criticized for saying disgusting things about women and girls.
As long as they refuse to find any other way of bonding that isn't at our expense they'll always treat women like shit and throw us under the bus.
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex is maybe an outlier in this respect because he doesn’t engage in “locker room talk”. One of his “friends” from the bar (aka known as a longtime recipient of free drinks from him and who actually has no respect for him and is secretly jealous of his success), tried to sleep with me and said he thought my ex was gay because he never talked about this or that woman’s tits or ass when the rest of them were. He (my ex) does suddenly use the word “broad” a lot lately to refer to women though so I imagine he uses that word when talking to his bar bruhs, as a way to get his sexist digs in. In some way, shape or form they have to degrade us to bond with each other. Sports can only get them so far. Just look at the mgtow forums. If they couldn’t constantly denigrate women, they would have no “community”. We are all sluts and gold diggers. They’re so lonely that they poison their own minds with misogynistic garbage just to feel that they belong somewhere. And yet, none of those guys really give a shit about each other.
[–]PandaLLCFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I must say I havent experienced that. The worst thing I've witnessed was when guys ranked girls at a party according to their physical attractiveness. They didn't know I could speak their language.
I come from a family in which the father thought girls/women are the better sex and I kind of went with that.