Ladies, rather than have sympathy for "Pickmeshas," when your Pickmesha friend wants to cry on your shoulder about how her moid guy did her wrong, tell her to cry it out, pick herself up, and point her here.

The advice on this group will open her eyes more than anything you can tell her. She just wants a shoulder to cry on, but is not likely to change without some "sisterly" advice that is real-world and firm.

When she starts in moaning and lamenting again, tell her to come here, you don't want to hear it. We do the world a service by helping each other level up, not having too much sympathy for ladies who are not interested in bettering their position. Harsh? Maybe. But you know it's tough love.