Hey guys,

asked out a girl from my college, we went out twice, kissed on the first date, a bit more on the second one. I’m 24 she’s 22.

She’s a virgin, I was her first kiss. I’m seeing her almost every day in college and it just feels weird as I’m not really sure how to act.

After our first date when I saw her the next day (always people that are friends with both of us are around us) I just gave her a friendly hug and we spoke for a bit, just like friends. The only people that know we’re dating are two of her close girl friends that also go to our school and know me, she told them.

Our dates are great and she’s opening up to me, conversations are cool and we move further physically every time.

Problem is, once we’re at school it just feels way too friendly, our dates have great energy and tension going on but in school, nothing, we also never text except for logistics, she never initiate text conversations.

A few questions:

  1. Should I be more physical with her in school? How can I keep the more then friends vibe going when people are always around us? Texting?

  2. She’s very inexperienced, could that be the reason she’s not affectionate towards me? We more then kissed and today when she was walking out of school she didn’t even stop to give me a hug and just waved goodbye... It takes the fun out from dating her for me. I have no idea if she’s into me and just don’t really know how to express it or just going out with me for whatever, we did already set a third date...

There’s one side of me that wants to confront her, “you got to step it up, are you sure you want to be more then friends?” and yet having a talk about that feels weak, after all she does wanna go out again...

I have no idea what to do.