Need to be alone to rethink my life

imcleverartistname · 2020-06-09T10:43:01+00:00

Her cursing you was her true self.

Good move, now move on, good.

PrinceRaj53 · 2020-06-09T11:38:55+00:00

20 year old guy.... Got redpilled a year ago.

Hmm, impressive. Be sure to continue embracing and internalizing the red pill knowledge, you will see how it helps you to become the individual man that you want to be.

None of my friends or anyone can relate or believe what i say

Obviously. Boys, and the men are conditioned since their birth, to believe that women are some form of unicorns who shit rainbows or something. Society and religion hate the idea of a man being his own man and being an individual, because that ceases to benefit society and religion. And your friends and family are just byproducts of that same gynocentric manipulation and will always oppose anything if that goes against the idea of a "perfect life" in their minds.

Not completely these men's fault, as they have been taught for most of their lives that they’re supposed to defer to the feminine imperative of the family. They’re supposed to defer to mommy. They’re supposed to defer to wifey. They’re supposed to defer to whatever woman is in charge of them. Hence they consume that teaching and in the process of domestication by society and religion, they become what they consume as well.

i was skipping sleep just to be with her and it was fucking up my schedule

Good observation on your part about the frame : You are playing in her frame and letting her do the leading. In a relationship, it's the man who leads and its the woman who follows. Thats the default basis of any and all relationships with women. If you let the opposite happen, it's only going to effect you the man negatively in the long run. It's her who should operate in your frame, because you are the man not her. You are letting her in your life's journey and it's upto her to prove her worth as a woman, even if you two are just dating/fucking. Simple as that.

I'm just fucking 20,i wanna have time to fuck and experience shit myself

And that, is how you should live your life. You don't get into the marriage/settle down stuff. Only men who don't have anything in their lives anymore after getting what they want(money mostly), men who don't have any excitement, enthusiasm or purpose in their lives, those are the ones who get into serious relationships like LTR and marriage. A man who is focused on himself and his life's journey, has purpose and knows what he wants from life knows that settling with one woman simply eliminates any and all form of control he has upon himself and he is essentially just putting a leash on his neck for the rest of his life while giving up all his cards in the hope of a fictional "all in one package". The individual man knows that a woman is only as good as her options, and the relationship is good as long as you set a time limit to a relationship and end it after the time limit.

Decided to confront her

Major fuckup number 1. This is what you should not do when you are with a woman. Do not confront and let her play her cards. Never. Follow the B.I.G rule of redpill instead, which is Block, Ignore and Ghost. If you want to know my personal preference, mine is simply one last good fuck and then a silent exit without saying or explaining anything. You are the man and initiated it, so you end it on your terms. Besides, there is nothing to confront her about. She fucked up, so hard next her, simple as that. You dont "confront" or "fix" garbage(her fuckup in this context, which is trying to force her frame in you) in your life, you throw that in the garbage bin outside of your house.

She left a huge message saying how she is cursing me and i will never be successful in life and this and that.

As another commenter said, that was her true self. Women can't handle rejection, specially when she was vetting you. Yup, you heard that right. This girl was Vetting you to see how much boyfriend material you are, because she needs a backup plan for the future. Why? Because of your Perceived Status, i.e. seeing the value and potential you have and the value you can bring to her life in the future. Women are very good at cost benefit analysis when it comes to men. Thats why men are the ones who get fucked the most in relationships, because they think with emotions and their dicks, while the woman puts actual emotional reasoning to work.

There would be small break up and we would patch up again,

DO. NOT. DO. THIS.

You dont "break up and patch up". Once an ex, always an ex. You dont take her back. Have some self respect for yourself mate.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective life of yours than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct or fix a "relationship". Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

Edit : Ah getting downvotes already? Jeez, tradcons and lurkers, cool down.

FairlyWhelmed · 2020-06-09T11:27:10+00:00

i need some approval.

No, you don't, cousin.👍

Chakra_Devourer · 2020-06-09T11:45:30+00:00

Speaking of life, don't fucking get into debts. It's a pit of despair.

ShatterMyReality · 2020-06-09T10:44:20+00:00

It doesn't matter what she says , go your own way. Might hurt at first but with time mental clarity and peace of mind will come.

FairlyWhelmed · 2020-06-09T11:30:38+00:00

She left a huge message saying how she is cursing me and i will never be successful in life and this and that.

Sounds like she felt hurt (which is hers to deal with, or not).

No matter what she says or does, you still have the ability to choose and to act according to your goals and values.

bigdaadyy · 2020-06-09T23:47:14+00:00

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Title	Need to be alone to rethink my life
Author	bigdaadyy
Upvotes	26
Comments	38
Date	June 9, 2020 10:39 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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