How to find out what's the girl's height and not to sound like you are not confident?

MrAgamemnon · 2018-12-05T16:33:34+00:00

"what's your height tho, wanna know what should I be looking for when I get there"

That's so lame.

Doesn't matter how tall she is.

The moment you say that the hamster goes into overdrive looking for a reason to bail.

Have slept with a girl who is taller than me, but date itself was kinda akward tbh.

You got laid, the date wasn't anywhere as awkward as you think and if it was, it wasn't about height.

horologist2018 · 2018-12-05T16:33:48+00:00

I'm kinda short guy - 5'8/5'9.

Same

Was never really a problem for me,

Because it's not a problem.

but on the other hand I also realize that it's much harder to get higher girls.

Only on dating apps. In real life, approaching girls taller than you catches them off-guard. Height goes out the window on cold approaches.

Have slept with a girl who is taller than me, but date itself was kinda akward tbh.

You made it awkward. She still slept with you, didn't she? Your concern with height is what made you think it was "awkward." Height does not matter.

Before meeting a girl from tinder or instagram

I - no shit - didn't read your entire post before starting to respond to it. I made the supposition that you've been doing online dating based on your concern with height. And, I was right. This shit doesn't matter in real life.

I usually write something like "what's your height tho, wanna know what should I be looking for when I get there".

And she is thinking: "Uh oh, he's insecure about his height. Ohhhhh yeah! Thanks for reminding me that I should only be dating guys 6' or greater according to online dating parameters; something I wouldn't have given a shit about if not reminded it. Thanks, bitch boy."

Today texting was minimum, just few jokes and few phrases and we arranged to meet on Saturday, not planning on texting her till Saturday but at the same point

Okay.

I got curious if she is higher than me,

Why are you so obsessed with your height?!

on photos she is not looking very tall and also one thing which I saw

Jesus Christ. STOP IT

- she has lots of photos in heels in her instagram,

Heels are Hawt.

that should mean she tries to compensate for her height.

Dude. You have a little Height Hamster in your brain that won't stop with this garbage. Girls Wear Heels. Even tall girls wear heels. Heels make their legs and ass look good, and make them appear slightly skinnier.

Go approach tall girls in real life. They don't give a fuck about your height. It makes no difference. Girls only care about height in two scenarios:

A: Online with all the rest of their bullshit parameters that NEVER apply in real life

and

B: When asked "How tall should a guy be?" as a general question.

Girls don't give a fuck about height. Don't listen to what women say. Watch their actions.

[deleted] · 2018-12-05T20:25:42+00:00

5'9" is the average height of a man in the United States. Quit being so fucking insecure. Your insecurity is 100x more unattractive than your height.

Sin-Silver · 2018-12-05T18:33:32+00:00

You should never discuss or think about the height difference. You are immediately setting yourself up to feel insecure.

Just post to your profile your height, that way anyone looking will know your not a shamed.

SuperCrazy07 · 2018-12-05T19:52:35+00:00

I feel like you're about average. I mean, if you were 5'0, I can see where you'd be worried, but I bet 99% of girls won't think anything of it.

I would 100% not bring it up. It only makes you sound insecure. And, c'mon, who asks a girl her height in order to pick her out from a group of people?

Title	How to find out what's the girl's height and not to sound like you are not confident?
Author	ddd1337
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Date	December 5, 2018 4:24 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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