So I get iois and shit. But however I’ve put this thought in my head that the bigger dudes in the store or wherever I get the iois are Gona kick my ass if I approach. Yes I lift and do bjj. But whenever I see a 6’3 dude who’s 240 in the store i get paranoid that he’s not see me as worthy of getting the woman. I’m 6 ft 170 jacked, very fast and strong for my size. I know woman like big strong dominant men. But they also like “hot good looking men who look like players”. Which I don’t think a fat 6’3 240 dude gives off that vibe but who knows. Usually it’s the good looking swagging lean muscular bros who give off player vibes.

Due to low body fat I look like I weigh more than I do. I think it’s all in my head. I do bring fitness value to the table(if we’re going back to primal times) I am seen as very fit. However I put this thought in my head cuz of dominant hierarchies and shit. Does anyone else feel this way and how can I fix this? Thanks brothas