I really don't understand what's going on. It doesn't matter if it's a girl I'm meeting for a first date, a plate, a girlfriend, or an ex-girlfriend, they all flake on our plans more than they don't. Last summer I had 4 girls in a row from dating apps flake on our first date, some just hours beforehand. The last girl I dated would flake a few times a month. She'd flake on plants to hang out, hike, go to concert, and even a trip abroad, which was the final straw. Every girl except for one has been like this. I know you must be thinking I must be insufferable or annoying or boring for this to happen so often, but I really don't think that's the case. Just a normal guy who follows through with his plans and expects others to do the same.