I am well aware that this is not the perfect spot to ask these kinds of questions but the way I see it at least I might leave with some honest answers and it might make me consider things from different angles and decide better. I have experience of my own but maybe someone else was in a similar situation.

I am solo for about three years now. Never been happier. Less drama etc. Women can be very demanding and draining over time like vampires for lack of a better word.

I have met this chic through an English course where I was helping out with teaching the "kids" some conversational stuff. She is 18 right now... gonna end up high school next year then college. The usual. She works/used to work a part-time job as a bartender.

There was interest on her end since she slid into my DM's on IG right after and we are messaging back and forth for a couple of weeks. Not too heavy, got better things to do in my free time but it's circa a couple of messages throughout the day.

Now - she is very hot and seems very easy going, fun but I am not sure if I am setting myself for a disaster down the road or not? I guess I kinda do.

I usually set up a really easy vibe with women conversation wise in general so they happily tell me everything (thinking they are so cool and whatnot), including the "closet" grade stuff which raises disgust levels in my system by a huge margin... since they think they feel we are on the same level etc. It's my way of checking up the field, knowing what I am dealing with.

So yeah. She is 18, quite hot and there are couple of red flags going on there. She has sl*t like girlfriends, tattoos, her IG wall/stories are full of her/selfies/please validate me material. Usually quite inviting if you get my grip. Goes to clubs and parties every weekend. Dated a drug dealer at some point and they recently broke it off since he moved to an another country. She admitted she likes "dic*" yesterday when she got back from a party and was wasted - which is no breaking news to me honestly but there you go.

I wanted to take her to the movies and get her to know better/possibly enjoy some fun but I am honestly not sure if that's a good move to do.

Were you in a similar position? How did you deal with it? And if you went with it, how did that end on your end?