She came for "a movie". I was tired, couldn't get it up for full sex. I didn't let it effect me and we had great time (fingering, blowjob etc). After I dropped her off I texted her ("sleep yet?") for anti rape purposes.

The next day made a mistake - sent her a messege again (a quick joke regarding the movie - just 2-3 messege exchange, me ending it).

2 Questions :

  1. I was planning to wait 2-3 days and then set to meet 2-3 days ahead. Is this the right move?
  2. Should I just invite her over again to watch a movie, or should I say "let's grab a coffee at place X, and then we can watch a movie at my place"? (i don't drink)