My sister was fired from her financial firm a few months ago and having zero money, decided at my dads invitation to move back across the country into our 2 bedroom suite until she got resettled. She brought her boyfriend whom is 24 (she is 32). For the first month they played WoW all day. She didn't want him to get a job because hes from the US and not legally allowed to work in Canada yet. So she essentially paid this guys living for the last year they were living together in eastern Canada.

Anyways it's clear their lifestyle habits are that of slobs. Their room, which consists of our curtained off livingroom, is a disaster. Clothes everywhere, piles of dishes and garbage.

It was only the month of december that they contributed anything towards rent after finding odd cash jobs, but even then it was only $100 so far from a "fair share". One of the stipulations of her living here was she could not bring her 3 pet ferrets into the house, because they stink like shit and she has a history of letting them just run wild around the house shitting in all corners of the house and never cleaning it (she ruined my dads condo this way).

Over the last couple days the toilet in the bathroom has become quite shitted up, literally looks like a shit explosion caked the complete inside of the bowl. I gave it a few days but it hasn't been cleaned and there's fresh wet shit chunks as of yesterday one of the sides. In my entire 2 years of living here the toilet has never been that dirty and I don't even consider myself a clean freak.

So last night I messaged my sister before going to bed stating thus: By 830pm tomorrow the toilet needs to be shiny white, I'll be having guests over.

She then responded with: then clean it haha

My sister throws teenager-like tantrums whenever told to do anything in an aggressive or commanding manor. She has a clear problem with authority in any form but I don't particularly want to enter her frame and ask her in a diplomatic, reasoning way to clean the toilet because from my perspective a toilet should never be that dirty.

She lives a complete slob lifestyle and she blows up any time she's told to do something. The last time my dad told her he felt disrespected by her bringing her ferrets anyways she broke down crying over the stress of her being fired etc etc.

I feel like there needs to be real consequences for my sister and her bf for not cleaning up when they should. When adults, just like children find out there is zero consequences for misbehaving from authority figures, they'll just go on misbehaving because its easy.