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[–]detikripurFDS Newbie53 points54 points55 points 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
I have had worse: -I have been nice on the phone. Wrote you 3 days straight goodmorning so I expect something when we see each other face to face. -What do you expect exactly?? - I know we won’t have sex-unless you want-but I will try and change your mind, but at least a bj as minimum. You will like it too to see how horny you make me.... -Excuse me, what was your name again??? You know we started texting because of working matters and when we meet tomorrow it will be a meeting with other people also. What am I missing here?? -We can go in one of the offices for 5 min. Nobody will notice. It will be fun.... -Maybe in your sick dreams. Block Needless to say I was with my gf who were reading the exchange and they couldn’t believe their eyes. Our meeting was a high level one, in a secure building and you couldn’t even go to the toilet without signing a register and I was ordered to contact this guy and 5 others over technical stuff. The others were more then professional and very helpful. This guy instead.... I asked my boss to take my name out of the list for the meeting and he agreed as my job was done. After the meeting my boss started asking me questions about him casually. Basically he had told my boss that we had a thing and it was a done deal. Mind you I had never meet the guy face to face, we lived in different cities and my boss gave me his email and tel nr to make contact for work. I showed my boss the exchanges over 3 days and he was shocked. He told me that even if he didn’t know our exchanges he knew me and him. That was no way in hell I would even consider him...because he stinks and is an idiot. At least that time he was by me side.
All this for being nice...on the phone. Needless to say now I keep my communications short and clinical. People have complained how cold I am but I don’t own anybody “1 sex” anymore. End rant
[–]NeoragoFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I had recently left an abusive relationship so wasn't looking for anything.
A male friend was aware of my situation. We start gaming together.
He'd write "hugs" to me. I didn't think much of it, just that he was being nice I guess? I never reciprocated.
Few weeks later
"I got a job for you"
Huh, what?
"I mean.. I like you so I got a job so we can be together"
WHAT???????
"Well I wouldn't say hugs if I didn't like you would I?"
I............... WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT????????
"Well, you were in an abusive relationship so I couldn't exactly ask you for sex or a relationship. But I've been patient and waited for you thinking we would get together"
WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT?!!?
"You asked me how much children I wanted. You don't ask someone that if you don't want it with them"
?!!!!! Apparently I should have knew he liked me because he said "hugs" and because he patiently waited a few weeks following a 5 year long abusive relationship, I should give him sex/a relationship?
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jfc.
[–]VivaLaSeaFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You should have reported him.
[–]detikripurFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well, once (before this episode) I was about to report another previos boss of mine. Officially. You wouldn’t believe how many people intervened for me to not do it. It is my biggest regret and pain. Those people were my “friends” and close colleagues. Learned my lesson and I started the evading techniques and playing dumb. Sometimes it works fine sometimes I unleash the Craken.
[–]VivaLaSeaFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Men pull this crap because they keep getting away with it. We need to start holding them accountable. You should report anyone who harasses you at work regardless of what others say.
I once had a coworker grab my ass and there were idiots who said I overreacted by reporting him. Fuck their opinions. Sexual harassment should always be reported.
[–]detikripurFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We should. Unfortunately not always we are heard and the society works against us.
[–]VivaLaSeaFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I understand that but we’re definitely not going to be heard if we don’t even speak up.
[–]LaninaconfusaFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Damn sis that's nuts. Sucks that you had deal with this garbage can of a human. Why do some many guys think, " Look at this bitch....she's talking to me for 10 minutes a day. She's SOOOOO into me. Now I can tell her that she should have sex with me.
[–]detikripurFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh. Another gem: not even talking, smiling or interacting whatsoever BUT had to go to the office NEXT to where he worked to meet a friend. We have an open door policy so he would see me passing every day (the office of my friend was on our way to the coffe place so made sense for me to go and pick him. He told people I liked him and that’s why I was parading everyday in front of him. I knew half his name (imagine Jim vrs Jin) that’s how interested I was. When someone told me it took me a couple of minutes to realize who the F he was and when I misspelled his name that person started laughing. He was like oh yeah you don’t even know his real name but you are into him soooo much. I confronted that twat. I think I made him cry a little. Was a big girl by then 😂😂😂.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right on.
[–]SayNadFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
OMG girl your story reminds me of my internship time at an engineering company - all I did was smile and being pleasant with everybody (I have a nice resting face, so it is my go to attitude since it is my first internship) and this one fucking old guy (in his 50s, his first child is the same age as me at the time, 22) decide that it is in his right to harass me until the end of internship. Fucking hell.
[–]detikripurFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well I am 39 now. I started working in my job at 26. There hasn’t been ONE SINGLE DAY without something happening. From “hi beautiful” or some variation of that, to touching. I learned all the coping mechanisms you can think about.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok, that sounds familiar. Turned out older dude wanted me to have a threesome with his wife. I never flirted with that fucking guy...it was all in his stupid, bald head.
[–]SayNadFDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I never flirted with that fucking guy...it was all in his stupid, bald head.
That's pretty much my experience, especially old balding guys with big belly. It is all in their stupid fucking head, and have the audacity to act like we are the crazy one when we report their ass. Maybe all that food and sedentary lifestyle fried their brain a little too much.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn't even report him, but I did him straight. He accused me of being a prick tease. I wouldn't talk to him for a year.
[–]NewGirl_WhoDisFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol I like how his display name is "simp boy". I bet he gets called that many times for showing basic respect to women and calling out scrotes on their nasty, low value behavior.😂😂
[–]LaninaconfusaFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This how reminds me of the number of memes I've seen in which guys compliment a girl and they're upset because all she did was say thanks. I mean......what the fuck do you expect? Am I supposed to be your girlfriend or suck your dick because you said my hair looks good? And the worst part is that the comment section is full of guys who relate to this garbage. Seriously....how? And they have the nerve to say that women are complicated.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're basically begging us to ignore them. I mean, come on. How horny and desperate can you get?
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