Curious as to what the community’s thoughts are on a genuine relationship.

Are they real.

Is the concept of love a mere synchronization of both male and female needs being satisfied by their partner without contest or outside interference by a third party?

I am young and curious as to whether I should allow my skepticism to be subdued if even only temporarily, so that I may enjoy a healthy relationship while I can.

Thanks.

Edit* Referring to male female courtships.