One of my friends told me last night that even if the girl is midly attractive and single most likely she's playing the field. Had a girl from work all over me at a holiday party, friends think she's interested in me but when I talk to her she talks about the other guys she's trying to get with. My buddy also said that it's best to get your name out with a lot of girls and basically be in rotation until someone gets cut loose. To me it's like basically I'm waiting my turn to get with these women.

I tried to flirt with her, she was sitting on the edge of my chair I put my arm around her a few times and sat close but to me she didn't seem interested in me. It's confusing to me but I think I understand it a little better now. Am I the orbiter? Do I need to remove a lot of female friends from my life? They haven't randomly introduced me to any of their friends or don't have any friends or all have boyfriend's.