How to get rid of feelings of loneliness? Lost teenager seeking advice, basically

comcain · 2020-07-03T22:47:05+00:00

Loneliness is a hard one. I was always lonely as a kid. I made up for it by having a very few close friends I could always rely on. So I can relate.

In truth, we're all lonely. It's part of the human condition. We make up for it with friends, lovers, mass media (books, movies, my little phone, askTRP, and so forth).

Having an LTR and having it go the way they tend to is also hard. But be careful of thinking an LTR is the solution to loneliness. It'll load down the relationship to where it breaks. Note that I'm not blaming you for your breakup.

It sounds like your ex was a major bitch. It wasn't your fault, seems like everyone has an abusive relationship in their past. I sure did.

Brother, it gets better gradually. One day you wake up and find that working on your mission, your one special project, is more important than other people. Or rather, you make your peace with it.

Don't be afraid to let tears out. I think the breakup and the loneliness have got you down and you need to heal. Let me recommend journaling. Write down your thoughts and feelings. You have to write intensely, though, really commit to it. If you break a pencil tip off, you're doing it right.

I guarantee this will help. I've done it at my low points and it absolutely vacuums bad shit out of your mind.

Good luck, brother.

BTW you can always switch degrees. Too many liberal arts degrees are worthless in job land. The traditional recommendation is a STEM degree, but being an engineer isn't for everyone. Good luck with your mobile app! Sounds like you're going places!

AR-15's rock. Had one with a 3-9x scope that I could drive tracks with. Amazingly accurate.

Cheers

ipwnedx · 2020-07-04T00:18:36+00:00

You will look at this post in a year and laugh at yourself

Lift, have a good diet, and keep grinding

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2020-07-04T03:09:52+00:00

Through out your life you'll experience really weird dips where you feel more strongly than other times in the past. Just remember that you will get through it eventually. Softer men than you have gotten through harder times.

MontrealStud · 2020-07-04T06:09:25+00:00

You ain't fat but you ain't jacked either

What's jacked? Putting your physique above anything else right now you're putting women above everything even yourself. Almost as if the only way you will feel like a man is to be with a woman.

You're a man because you choose to be not because a fucking semi prostitute is cuddling with you every night.

Go out break your spirit then reinvent yourself where your priorities are different.

2020-07-04T17:05:54+00:00

Definitely need to make some friends. We are wired to need sociality. Without that you will be bugging out all the time. Even if the people at your college annoy you can still get your loneliness levels down by just going to parties and things. And there are probably some decent people among them who you will vibe with. If anything you will be the fish out of water so some of those girls will probably be interested in you if they are awash in a bluepill sea. You can even start your own social circle pretty easily I would guess if you can find people who are more contrarian or who feel like you do. Put some feelers out and see if some people are sick of the general attitude there too. You have learn to start socializing sooner or later, so just dive right in even if it is uncomfortable or boring at first.

shadalator · 2020-07-04T00:05:58+00:00

Are you lifting?

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2020-07-04T13:26:50+00:00

loneliness is instinctual, you cannot avoid it

MMFOOD_ · 2020-07-03T22:12:10+00:00

your not blue pill but you hug a pillow and cry at night because you don’t have a girlfriend ?

Title	How to get rid of feelings of loneliness? Lost teenager seeking advice, basically
Author	BoredAF6334
Upvotes	10
Comments	15
Date	July 3, 2020 10:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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