Question for thought, let's say you were entering ltr dynamics with a girl slowly overtime and she has shown crazy interest for you all this time, cooks you food, gets out of her way to see you even for a little bit, is complacent, will try to mimic you and follow what you say is good etc.

Then sometime you start fucking up, meaning you start bothering yourself about what she does, who she's with etc. (I know lack of abundance but this happens often when you stop spinning plates and start getting into ltr with a woman right?) and the solution of course is more plates or gaming more women and keeping options available so abundance is present. But let's say you fuck it up, you might have a quarell or two sometimes, you don't show jealousy or too much neediness of course, but yet she shows interest, might be slightly less.

My question is can you remake and be the best version of yourself again to keep her attracted to you? and even raise the attraction even more? Like, hit the gym, talk to other women, give her absolute freedom and actually not give a fuck about what she does but instead mind your own life and goal, would that attract her even more again or once you've kinda screwed up it's going to be over soon?