I’m just sorry for the guy. F u r/thefairersex

BruhndonDales · 2020-06-10T09:57:16+00:00

We do that shit for them lol I'd do it in a McDonalds bathroom if that's what the bitch wanted Jesus Christ settle the fuck down and get a job working with sheet metal since you want to bend shit.

2020-06-10T18:17:05+00:00

They ALWAAYYS have to be the victim, unbelievable

DarkWoman666 · 2020-06-10T10:24:28+00:00

Lesson learned: don't propose in public unless you ready to be rejected in public.

Caaass_ · 2020-06-10T12:34:49+00:00

It is never good what ever you do, if you do it at home or I don't know somewhere in private it isn't big enough and more people should've been there to witness it. But when you make it big with a lot of people there in a public space you pressure her into saying yes? It's unbelievable how Hippocratic woman can be.

beniesixx98 · 2020-06-10T18:34:33+00:00

I mean this is why you actually have to ask questions and be open to have those conversations in private . And guys you really don't need to propose in public like that . But that can be a lack of communication on her side. I do feel bad for him though but there are a million reasons to not get married. Maybe she's not ready , they can't afford it (which I doubt) or maybe bad timing .

2020-06-10T19:37:31+00:00

How dare he propose to his girlfriend? What a manipulative bastard!

eldredge_ape · 2020-06-10T19:09:13+00:00

Ironic considering marriage and especially divorce primarily benefit women. Any marriage benefit sold to men that I’ve heard can be summed up as: You work harder, don’t live alone, and might get to have sex sometimes.

alep2007 · 2020-06-10T11:58:10+00:00

I think they call it fairer sex because they kill males and logically they are the fairest

Jakeybaby125 · 2020-06-10T11:53:44+00:00

She'll come to regret it when she hits the wall with a resounding thwack and comes crawling back to him with a couple of cats, lots of emotional baggage, two kids from Chads she banged and a lot of fat weight meanwhile he'll be successful and past it in a relationship with a supermodel.

chambertlo · 2020-06-10T20:41:26+00:00

A woman wouldn’t feel complete if she couldn’t play the victim. Lmao.

theregulargy · 2020-06-10T23:08:06+00:00

https://youtu.be/LGJjVSnydGs Its a prank

sanrio-sugarplum · 2020-06-11T00:42:34+00:00

As a former feminist, I remember doing mental gymnastics to find a problem with *every* situation. Now I'm cringing. It's a proposal, it's not that deep. Poor guy.

sed_boi69 · 2020-06-11T07:08:30+00:00

I hate that there are other women smiling at the rejection. Its just sad

zipflop · 2020-06-10T10:40:19+00:00

She's walking straight into depression and no sense of fulfillment.

Let her go and regret it all when she's 40, ugly, bitter and unwanted.

djredditbossman3123 · 2020-06-11T06:09:19+00:00

imagine if he drove her to the mall and just leaves her there

username2136 · 2020-06-12T04:31:22+00:00

You can just say yes and give the ring back later if you are worried about public outlook. Idk about you but I have bigger things to worry about than being put in a position to publicly humiliate someone.

japanese-bo1 · 2020-06-13T12:24:15+00:00

so were willing to give away so much just to be with a loving woman

1 we lose the respect of the entire world

Once upon a time, getting married and settling down and having kids and taking on a mortgage was the very definition of manhood. All those things made you an adult, worthy of respect and admiration. In 2015, those things make you a chump. Father knows best has been replaced with the image of fathers as bumbling, slovenly idiots who would be sleeping in a dumpster if it were not for the controlling, condescending shrew he married.

2 our entire sex life will die

According to Dr. Helen Smith, who wrote Men On Strike: Why Men Are Boycotting Marriage, Fatherhood and the American Dream, married men have more sex, on average, than single men, but the men having the most sex, and the most satisfying sex are men cohabiting, but not married to their partners. Unmarried women know that sex is part of the deal, and refusing regularly jeopardizes the whole relationship. Married women understand they can use sex as a weapon, because the costs of divorce are so high.

3 you will lose your own space

In most marriages, women treat the house and all the rooms in it as theirs. You might get a mancave or a closet to keep your things in, but you can be sure whatever space you have is not going to be in the main section of the house. Gone are the offices, the dens, the rec rooms, the billiards rooms with a wet bar. Spaces designed for the comfort of men have been torn out of family homes, reflecting a new social reality in which men are not considered central to the family.

4 if a divorce happen it will financially ruin you

Getting legally married is like betting half your stuff she won’t cheat on you. No matter what she contributed, or did not contribute to the marriage, half of your stuff is hers. It works in reverse too, if she happens to be wealthier than you, but in general, men earn more money than women, so the reality is she’ll be taking your stuff. If you are not married, she has no claim on your assets, nor you on hers. That fact alone makes rejecting marriage the smartest financial move a man can make.

5 we lose our family

If you have kids, she’ll be taking those, too. Women get custody of children 80% of the time, and you will be lucky to see your children a few weekends a month. You will have to pay her for the privilege of seeing your own children, too, but you have no legal right to make certain that money is being spent caring for your children. If she spends the money at the hair salon, that’s her business. If you refuse to pay her, you’ll go to jail. Oh, the children don’t even have to be yours. You can and will be made to support children she fathered with another man. you can even be sued for child support if a woman stole your sperm cheated on you and got pregnant or literally can sue anyone for child support as long as she is pregnant.

but there is only one reason why a man should marry

It only applies to men who want children. If you do not legally marry the mother of your children, those children legally belong to her. You have no legal right to be a presumed parent to your children, and it is virtually impossible for an unmarried father to gain access to his children if the mother does not agree.

CantHaveANormalName · 2020-06-15T11:04:18+00:00

"Cornered to say yes", proceeds to reject

VileInsidias · 2020-10-30T10:42:37+00:00

If he put her in a situation where she was coerced to say yes then why did she say no? Feminist logic.

Title	I’m just sorry for the guy. F u r/thefairersex
Author	theregulargy
Upvotes	139
Comments	32
Date	June 10, 2020 9:21 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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