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This might be true to some extent but she acts like men don’t get the same shit from women.

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November 28, 2019
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Title This might be true to some extent but she acts like men don’t get the same shit from women.
Author username2136
Upvotes 264
Comments 32
Date 28 November 2019 05:30 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit antifeminists
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/707485
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/e315lc/this_might_be_true_to_some_extent_but_she_acts/
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[–]Logandanielsboi38 points39 points  (3 children) | Copy

Women always have to make it all about them. The truth is many men are just desperate as fuck nowadays. It’s pathetic but it is true. Men are so desperate for women they think anything a women does to them is a sign of a attraction. I notice this just as a guy watching other men. You can tell who the desperate men are

[–]qemist12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

The truth is many men are just desperate as fuck nowadays

It is as it has been. Of course the woman is projecting. Would never show courtesy to an unfuckable woman -- yet I often see men offering seats to old women, holding doors for them, helping them carry their shopping, etc. I rarely see women doing that for old men.

[–]Lickiecat6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

And women are bombarded by compliments from the poor weak sods who give in to their animal nature. Pussy is in high demand and low supply to the bottom 90% of men. Sadly this is just human nature, and the internet has tipped the cards in a pretty disgusting way since an insecure narcissist with a vagina need only turn on her phone for instant validation and worship. The agrivating thing is that they actually complain about all of the attention they get from "creeps" rather than looking at the bigger picture of why these guys are acting in such a pathetic way. I am more angry at these wretches who pedestalize and prey on women than the women themselves to be honest. Because they are the real problem.

[–]globalistakkk6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

exactly man, we men are the ones who spoil the shit out of woman, the more good looking the more spoiled she CAN be... we men are the ones who brought this “difficulty” on ourselves.. unfortunately most men only care about looks, so woman think all they need is pretty face to own them.. men are the ones that make woman shallow... woman barely have to try, so why become an interesting person? Most beautiful woman are shallow and plain standard 21 century personality...

[–]blisterward32 points33 points  (1 child) | Copy

Men interpret politiness from women as flirting because 90% of their lives they've had shit slung at them by bitches like this and if they reacted she'd be seen as the victim

[–]username2136[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah especially since they are constantly told that they are basically defective females and biologically predisposed to be violent all just because of that damned Y chromosome (despite being the same movement that pushes that gender is a social construct).

[–]RainbowsOfNight11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bruh I interpret politeness as politeness because it's 2019 and I don't wanna spend the rest of my life in prison because I looked at some girl who felt like going on a power trip.

[–]aroh1008769 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Men don't show any kind of politeness towards women these days because feminists have fucked it up so bad that showing politeness can be and is interpreted as sexual harassment.

[–]TraditionalCoffee4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with the title.

[–]MegaMindxXx4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hot looking women are super rude 99% of the time.

[–]Blizzarias1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

guys, someone make a fake twitter with a slightly unattractive male pfp and dm her and try to flirt with her and see if she leaves you on seen. Let's expose her of her hypocrisy

[–]ulgulanoth1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Usually unfuckable doesn't mean ugly, it usually means unbearable

[–]RPDunkleBomb1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly this. Me finding a woman fuckable is pretty much the norm unless she's a whale or ancient. Big whoop.

[–]CaptainChrom20000 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

Why would you court someone you wouldn't want to fuck? Men are atleast not as ruthless and cold as women. Some of them act like little bitches while rejecting men but if their approach gets shut down by a men like that they start whining and complaining.

[–]username2136[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

I agree. Maybe not right then but I for one want to make sure the relationship isn’t about to collapse in on itself before even thinking about it.

[–]CaptainChrom20000 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

wdym

[–]username2136[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

I don’t have sex until I know that my partner and I are in it for the long haul. That could take several months to be absolutely sure.

[–]CaptainChrom20000 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Ok, what does that have to do with my comment? And I doubt there are that many men sticking around for that long if sex is available so easily these days.

[–]username2136[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Well the only time that really happened was I was losing my virginity at the time so I was really scared I was gonna get her pregnant and I really wanted to wait until we can get our own apartment because we established the relationship in the summer between semesters in college. Tbh I wasn’t really sure where I was going with that either.

[–]CaptainChrom20000 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well I'm just saying people who can get laid won't wait for months until they can get it from you if they have other options. The "imma make my partner wait so I know he is really interested" bullshit doesn't work anyways. It only works for people who don't have options. But those who have will just not stay around or if they stay around drop you like a hot potato after they got what they wanted

[–]username2136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well, at least I think I had a legitimate reason. I don’t think her family cares that much but my family used to be borderline puritanical and they probably would have actually killed me if they found out.

[–]gendalf0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Men aren't giving other random men "courtesy" either. If you want something from another person, who isn't in a good relationship with you already - a good behavior would be to pay for their time or simply not waste it, if there isn't a mutual interest. As Jordan Peterson puts it: "people don't owe each other respect, only basic decency". Courtesy had been owed to the nobility during the feudal times, which women are claiming they are not..

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[–]username2136[S] 2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy

I suppose but I don’t think it is the only truth to this. I can imagine this kind of thing is a learned behavior. See the average person doesn’t fall in love with someone in the course of a day or less. The average man isn’t used to receiving any kind of compassion so wouldn’t it make sense to fall in love with the first woman to give him any?

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[–]username2136[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Lol is that a good “bro”? Also I want the stress that if we do receive compassion, it is even more uncommon to hear it from women. This just feels like an unending cycle. Women adopt the strategy to be snide towards men, later a woman who didn’t get the memo does something nice for a man and he is attached, if not in love, with her BECAUSE women have adopted the snide attitude to become convinced she has the hots for him, otherwise why would she be so kind to him? This strategy is what is making men forget there is a middle ground.

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[–]username2136[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Early stages? Everyone is an asshole in our early stages. We have all had bullies who would punch us in the stomach every time we see each other. Even now, I know both men and women who just love to piss in your Cheerios every now and then. I don’t act like an ass back at them because they are usually my boss, parents or other coworkers and would make my life even more miserable if I strike the wrong chord, but I still try to resolve any issue they might have with me if I can.

Also nowhere did I say that a woman owes me. I said that due to the general lack of sympathy for males these days over ideas that are that are blown way out of proportion or just patently false, is it really that far of a stretch that someone might think you are into them if you treat them like actual human beings?

Finally, how often is “often” because I can prove mathematically that the chances of ending poorly isn’t as often as you might think?

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[–]username2136[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Oh I thought you meant something much worse.

Look, I get that you have had met some nasty men as I have met some nasty women (I’ll give you a hint: there is a reason why I mentioned my parents). But the problem is, you are blaming an entire class of people for the sins of a few. I know because I had that mentality all the way up until a few years ago.

I actually thought that girls beat the shit out of their boyfriends regularly (after some studies I have seen from the CDC and many others today, it still doesn’t fill me with confidence) as I have actually seen it happen even to my friends and they had no choice but to sit there and laugh it off.

I actually thought that women don’t have a sense of humor as I can count the number of times I have heard women laugh in my pre-high school childhood on my fingers. Once I got to high school I thought they were all faking it.

My first date was a girl with undiagnosed borderline in which I never found out she had it until last year. It was terrifying because I had no idea wtf to do to make her feel better when she had an episode. I was too scared to hug her because that could set her off again on top of my already established fear of women in general. She never hurt me physically but she loved to twist my words to find meaning that isn’t really there.

I was then aware of my delusion when my very first girlfriend came around sophomore year of college. I basically worshipped her out of fear of her attacking me for five months and then I finally managed to get over it and realized the blanket statement I have been living by all this time. She ended up being a gold digger and left as soon as she drained me of all my money but that’s beside the point.

The isn’t completely gone however but it is easier to help me get more comfortable with meeting female friends. I’d say that your gender is responsible that people like me exist too but that’s a broad generalization as well. As someone who is going for computer science and has taken many discrete math and programming classes, I know you would be asking for trouble when you try to pull something like that in a debate or when trying to give someone instructions.

As for invitations, I generally stopped doing it too. In fact, I just lost interest in the dating scene. I’d rather die alone than with some woman who thinks she is oppressed even though she can:

-take half of my earnings, possessions and even my kids with a lovely dash of child support payments for something as simple as her being bored of me

-become abusive and I would find myself backed into a corner because I will get laughed at by society for letting a woman beat the shit out of me or say that I did something to deserve it and I cannot her back because I would be the monster thanks to the feminist Duluth Model and she can say I was the abuser. I would also have a difficult time going to an abuse shelter because there is only two in the US and any hotline will try to convince me that I was the abuser all along. Having kids with her would be even worse because I wouldn’t have any choice but to take it to reduce the likelihood of her taking it out on the kids and risking her getting custody if she divorces me.

-spend the rest of my life trying to please her but can’t because she does everything in her power to reduce my self esteem down to zero. It will only be a matter of time before I have everything I spent my life trying to build mercilessly taken from me and I will be living alone and unloved and society doesn’t care because they will assume it is my own fault the marriage didn’t work out due to the women are wonderful effect. I’ll probably end up killing myself because I will soon realize I would be too poor to attract another woman due to the constant child support payments on top of all the other bills I would have to pay.

I know I sound like one of those MGTOW people but that’s the only thing I agree with them on. A lot of laws revised in the name of reducing violence against women leave a lot of loopholes and room for abuse of power.

To tie this all together, these loopholes are the very reason why I am saying what I said. It seems like society allows women to do what men are condemned of doing since the beginning of time such as domestic violence and even rape (hermesmann v. seyer). This is my personal reason why I believe this post speaks the truth.

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[–]username2136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you for your insight and I agree that I need therapy but the reason I haven't went there yet is because I haven't been able to get away from those who will try to prevent me from doing it (mainly parents). I understand your reasoning on why you don't go on hating on men despite what happened to you and I am glad that you don't because it is true that there are good people in both sexes and the evil ones make up an extreme minority. This was a realization I was glad I had and the inner fear is just Pavlovian at this point because I have had it for so long. I know and appreciate many women like you who had similar beginnings and refuse to succumb to the mainstream practice of saying that men are all trash and stuff like that. Unfortunately, the women I do know who would gladly condemn men as animals who rape any woman they see outnumber them 3:1 or maybe more.

Unlike what you might hear, antifeminists don't hate women (in fact, hatred of women completely goes against this subs guidelines) and we criticize the movement, not women. We expose the things that feminist promote that should have been patently obvious that it isn't for equality but for equity but for some reason not enough people within the movement are questioning this. That marriage system I just described is one of them. I agree not all of them support these blatantly sexist things but the law and the way these are set up in general allow the bad ones to easily take a mile from the inch they were given and the fact that not enough people see the issue with this is why we are here.



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