So bear with me please for a long post, there's this girl working at the same place as me (MCDonalds part-time, I won't be there for much longer), she's a virgin confirmed by herself, and almost all of my coworkers and closest friends that work there, thing is she's younger than me (she's 18, I'm 20), feminine, cute af, almost doesn't put up shit tests, tries to touch me almost every time she passes by me and initates a lot of convos online or in real life. In general we have almost the same vibe and like the same stuff related to music for example.

Thing is, I haven't been giving her much hope because I've discovered some things about her that make me unsure whether to pursue it or not

  1. She's a virgin, so she's probably expecting a relationship with her first one, anyway it won't be easy to fuck her that quickly

  2. She lives with her mum and step-father, apparently they almost don't give her any liberty, for example, her step-father made her quit 11th grade, and thus not finishing school, in order to work at MCDonalds.

She never works at Sundays because her parents make her clean the house on that day, so she just stays at home, all day, cleaning her house, on a Sunday

Also not one, but multiple people whom I trust at my work, told me (because there's already rumours of us two being together despite not happening anything yet), that her stepfather abuses (not in a sexual way) her, in ways that instead of being their daughter, she's almost like the slave/maid of the house, this worries me a lot.

She's barely partied in her life, so even if she drinks 1, or 2 beers she already gets tipsy, also she's planning on moving out of house (I don't know if she'll be able to do that though) after saving enough money while working, which makes me worry, if she, at 18 y/o doesn't know anything about the party world, but says she'll party a lot after she has her driving license.

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This one bothers me because

a) She can mature a lot, she's already kinda mature if you talk to her, atleast more than many girls that I've met in my life (many of them were also older than her), but she's very naive yet

b) I've already met a girl who wanted me to bone her but I was virgin at the time so I fucked up my chances, she didn't party almost at all at the time, now after 2 years, she has rastas, smokes weed, fucks random uggos, and basically changed for the worst possible version of herself, I'm afraid that the same thing will happen with this girl (not saying the same thing will happen, because this girl partied with the worst people possible, but there's a chance)

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Also some key points, I'm planning to move outside my parents house in order to live in the city that I'm studying, next year, so if she also wants to move outside her house, renting a flat in the city is expensive so that would be really great

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I have a low n count and just lost my virginity this summer, but interacting with girls has never been a problem, I've just always fucked up my chances to get serious with a girl, so this would also be in a way positive for me, because having never been in a relationship, I see this as an opportunity that would make me grow as a person and sexually.

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I'd like your take on this subject fellow TRP'ers, what are your stories, your experiences with virgins, how did you approach her first time, what happened after, and also

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should I go for it?