So I know that giving a woman plausible deniability during a date to come back to your place (or hers) is usually quite important, ASD and what not. However I'm having trouble coming up with good plausible deniability. The most common I see is to come back to my place for a drink. However, I don't drink. What could I use, and also, how would this change if I live 40+min away from the city where the date is? I live in a small town, but there's a decent sized town about 40 min from where I live and is where most of my dates come from.