Tinder tips and tricks?

alaskanarcher · 2018-12-23T19:22:09+00:00

She has unlimited matches. If she isn't talking to you she's not interested. You are better off unmatching and not even wasting your time looking at her if she doesn't respond and keep a convo in the first 24 hrs.

Seeming fun is important.

They will swipe left on you for any reason whatsoever. Nothing to learn from that other than don't take anything personally.

Be direct about meeting up for something non committal. Some chicks don't want to give their number over tinder and would rather meet first. A number close means nothing anyway. Set up the date. That's what you're both there to do. Again, if she isn't making it easy to meet her she's not interested or she's too uptight to be fun and doesn't know how tinder is supposed to work. Move on.

If you aren't getting matches then delete your profile and start over. Go read up on good tinder profiles. If you have good social media then this may help you. I don't have social media but I put good photos of me up that show me smiling and allude to the fact that I have friends and a social life without that being in your face.

Make sure your profile is interesting. Ideally it should be funny and share facts about you that display your personality. I like the approach of writing a "quickly" list of fact about me where I sprinkle in some DHVs. Like, "I play guitar. I can fix your WiFi. I can solve a Rubik's cube. I can hold my breath for 2min 30 seconds, so far." But I'm still experimenting.

Have your logistics figured out for the date. It's always great to be able to move her from the first location to something more intimate if things are going well. At the end of the night either ask her back to yours or ask to see her place. I live with my mom currently so I try to figure out early if the chick has her own place so I can know if I'm going to be wasting my time. Every time a chick has invited me back to hers she has said that she isn't going to fuck me. That's her ASD kicking in and she doesn't know if you're the kind of douchey guy who can't take a no. Roll with it. Every time a chick has said that, later in the evening when she is less worried about my potential judgement or how clingy and needy I might be, she fucks me like she has wanted to all night.

Have fun. Be easy going and playful. Make her qualify herself to you. She will shit test you. Don't take anything personally.

Be willing to talk and game other people around you other than your date. I find this helps with getting me in the social mood and just displays that I'm not afraid to meet new people in new situations.

Auxfite · 2018-12-23T19:22:24+00:00

Tinder chicks in 2019 = high ego, low attention span. 80% are just seeking validation, 5-10% are dtf and the other 10% are seeking money from cash app.

You’re playing a losing battle if you’re not attractive

KimDongIllest · 2018-12-23T19:11:15+00:00

Be attractive
Don’t be unattractive

Psychological_Radish · 2018-12-23T21:40:12+00:00

This subject is too complicated to be addressed here. Search the main sub for Tinder guides, several good ones have been posted there.

It suffices to say that most men's problems boil down to some combination of low underlying SMV, poor quality pictures, lack of personality, and unmasculine poses.

As for getting chicks to meet, try to get to the date within 5 messages or so. Keep it light and fun. Don't be crude and rude.

Contrary to popular opinion, it is eminently feasible to improve one's results on Tinder. I'm not that much better looking than my friends but I bag much hotter chicks because I know what the fuck I'm doing and I put effort into my profile.

HltvFanBoy · 2018-12-23T19:21:45+00:00

Yesss listen good

Delete Tinder & go outside to meet people.

XT3M3 · 2018-12-23T20:28:57+00:00

tinder is only useful if you're attractive or you have someone (or yourself) get money shots of you.

i wasnt doing so good myself till i changed all my pics after this festival season. once you look good, the rest is easy

Title	Tinder tips and tricks?
Author	jekporkins77
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Date	December 23, 2018 7:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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