SO i have this paradox in my head that i can't quit figure it out. If woman r attracted by mystery, guys who seem out of their league and that other woman r also interested in, and if non-attachment to the girl is attractive, how the hell making your intentions clear works? If this is, at least, making it clear that yes she can have u, kill the chase and make it a "take it or leave it" situation? Any kind of screening is far long gone and the power is back in their hands.

"Oh but i jut want sex so if she don't want some other will" yah pay a hooker. This is not the question.