Single shaming

Frankbond123bond · 2020-07-16T09:16:00+00:00

Yeah, I get this a lot. When am I going to settle down? blah blah blah. People always do this. I shrug it off and repeat the same old cliche back to them to avoid further discussion or suspicion. "I havent found the right one." That shuts them up.

Global_MGTOW · 2020-07-16T10:08:58+00:00

Don't forget, misery LOVES company. If someone is shaming you for being single, they're most likely projecting their own failed relationship onto you and want you to fail even worse than they currently are.

Mr-Throb-of-life · 2020-07-16T10:12:20+00:00

You are a strong man.

mlgpc1 · 2020-07-16T11:47:22+00:00

The less you care abouth what other people think of you, the happier you will be.

Trust me.

StingRayFins · 2020-07-16T12:32:55+00:00

Females use WORDS as their weapon. They'll always twist things, omit truths, exaggerate, tell "just kidding" lies, shame, critique, and manipulate you.

Most have ZERO idea they do this. The rest are aware but give zero shits. The fact that they can look at you and lie to your face and think it's empowering and funny should discredit them from anything they have to say or do.

Love yourself. Respect yourself. Don't let them yank your chains.

LkTahoeNV · 2020-07-16T13:48:48+00:00

Best course of action = DGAF

Sir_manalot · 2020-07-16T11:16:11+00:00

Just say ok and agree with them, then walk away.

People here need to learn that not only is it pointless to argue with them, but doing so is a loss to you and will just make them target you more.

Are you a gay ass needy incel? No, but who cares if they think that and why do you care?

Just say Ok, agree with them and walk away.

The first time you do this, you will notice that they will become more desperate to get you to SUBMIT to there frame. (And you will notice that they will lose a bit of confidence).

If they do that, just say some form of “What’s wrong? I just said Okay?” until they cease.

This isn’t an argument, it is a game in there eyes. Don’t play it.

user_miki · 2020-07-16T14:50:51+00:00

The most biggest problem men have is that that they allowed themselves to be affected by shaming and change their behaviors as a result of that.

That is manipulation of men behavior by women.The were masters of that(now no more).Once you recognize that women will loose all power over you.

Regognize when this tactic is applied to you and never respond to it or fight back.

NiobiumMb · 2020-07-16T14:20:39+00:00

Most people just tell you you're going to change your mind etc they know better so I usually say I'm not interested and then when they give me their bullshit I just tell them there wasn't much point in them asking the question if they were going to answer for me.

Next time they can just presume the answer to their own question and not fucking ask me

themenacehimself · 2020-07-16T16:08:55+00:00

“I have yet to find a woman that can keep up”

Shuts them up every time.

Zeldy · 2020-07-16T17:32:49+00:00

They want to insult you. What they actually want to say is that something must be wrong with you since no woman want you or you are a weirdo you get the point. You can deflect with 2 tested options that work for me. 1- Say something like the golden era has passed and now is hard times to get married like "with Obama i would marry with Trump i wont!" 2- With a serious look say that you dont want to deal with the shit a marriage brinks. This is good cause everyone has to deal with problems so they probably would stop bothering you. If you say it in a way thats playful and serious then they'll get a serious look and ask again something like do you want to die alone or dont you like kids. You hold yor ground and answer i do but as i told you "current government" is shit and economy is shit or wife and kids are too trouble for me. My favourite is the first option cause its a nice diplomatic way to tell the other to go f*ck himself. Yes they will get it.

F-F-FIREBALL · 2020-07-16T20:08:23+00:00

No one else really matters.

Title	Single shaming
Author	CalmElk
Upvotes	43
Comments	12
Date	July 16, 2020 5:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/hs40z5/single_shaming/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/single-shaming.714705 https://theredarchive.com/post/714705

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