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No, shes not speicial.

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December 24, 2018
105 upvotes

I though she was different. I even said to myself after discovering TRP (relationship began before TRP), that "She seems different. It's unlikely, but possible that AWALT didn't 100% apply to her."

That was during the relationship.

A while later, she says shes really depressed, didn't want to bring me down, etc. Breaks up with me. That's no problem, I was expecting it, since things started going down hill. What I wasn't ready for though:

Less than a week later, I see through other people's Snapchat stories that she is partying with her ex.

Now, one month later, her ex posts a picture of her, thanking her for shoes she gave him for Christmas. You know the kicker? This bitch was going to give me the exact same pair for me for my birthday before the breakup, but didn't.

Deleted both of them, blocked, next-ed, everything under the sun.

She was branch swinging right under my nose. I was naive to think she was any different.

Listen folks, if you think something isn't right, follow your gut.

My gut told me exactly who she was, very early on. Yet, I thought she was different.

Do not make my mistakes.


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Title No, shes not speicial.
Author whipwhopthrowaway
Upvotes 105
Comments 26
Date 24 December 2018 09:09 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/71477
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/a98spb/no_shes_not_speicial/
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[–]icecoldwhoknows 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Watch her actions, don’t listen to her words. AWALT.

[–]jackandjill223 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've seen this before happens all the time honestly. Relationships have like zero half-life these days.

[–]Auxfite43 points44 points  (0 children) | Copy

Never take any girl serious that still associates or talks about their ex. Damaged goods in the making

[–]barn3r18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s unfortunate this happened to you, buddy. Happens to most men at some point in their life sometimes multiple times. Don’t stress it. Get yourself back out there and find some new girls.

[–]As-You-Were45 points46 points  (3 children) | Copy

If a girl even mentions an ex I now consider it a red flag. Plate theory and abundance mentality is the way to go.

[–]hitherto_insignia-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Plate theory? What is it?

[–]morrison201527 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy

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[–]TheYoonFather19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

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[–]Rkingpin24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're not giving many details here. Some of the blame may also lie on you despite AWALT.

In a woman's mind she sub-consciously will size you up compared to her ex's in all aspects (sex skills, strength of frame, overall alphaness etc).

If you seem more beta than her previous bf then don't be surprised when she goes back to her alpha fucks (unless she's at the beta bux stage in her life).

[–]whipwhopthrowaway[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm not saying that I am not to blame for it, of course I was. Toward the end of the relationship, I was pretty much done with it, anyway. All I'm saying is she surprised the hell out of me with what she did post-breakup, and what was most likely going on before that.

Edit: I left out lots of details that wouldn't really add value to the the post, other than increase it's length. I like to get straight to the point.

[–]dtyler866 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sorry bub. Most of us have been there too. Shit sucks

[–]GooeyLoveJuice2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good. Now you know for the future.

[–]CharlesChadworth5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

Why the flying fuck did you have her ex on your social media?????

[–]HastaPronto902 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I asked myself the same while reading. Small town?

[–]CharlesChadworth2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Possibly, however if any girl I'm interested in LTRing even mentions an ex let alone keeps fragments of them in their life, she wouldn't be anymore than a place to dump my load in.

[–]whipwhopthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Went to the same highschool the previous year. Knew him sort-of mutually.

[–]821sleepingbag0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree BUT don’t follow your gut, follow your head. Rational decisions always.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We know

[–]imtheoneimmortal-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you date and girl stay on ig is kinda bad I think

[–]Che_43-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Did you mean Snapchat? Because I can hardly imagine a person abstaining from ig while dating



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