In the movie watchmen rorschach is in prison and tells the other prisoners "I'm not stuck in here with you, you're stuck in here with me".

So I'm on tinder and alot of the guys from the same etnical background as me tend to ask me a ton of questions like I'm in some kind of "how much of a wifey material" are you interview. After being on this sub for a couple of months and seeing my own worth I realized that I'M the one interviewing them and not the other way round. My life is on the way to be good, HOW can they impress me, how can they make it even better? I'm not on an interview for a job in your life, you're the one being interviewed.