Here is me: http://imgur.com/a/Nf5ttd8

I'm 24, 5'6", 140 lbs (goal is 150 but lean). I have been with two girls my entire life, both during early college days. I dated one for over a year. We had a really bad breakup and it took me many, many months to finally start to feel better about myself and life again, but since I discovered the red pill I'm doing a heck of a lot better. I've changed the way I look at many things in life and no longer am I a weak, foolish dreamer. I realize now that I used to give off major beta frequency; now I'm trying to be more alpha.

But I haven't been with any girls since my ex dumped me and that was 16 months ago. I just graduated college, and times are very weird right now, so maybe that's part of it. But I no longer have an "arena" to play in like high school or college. No more manufactured environment with tons of people my own age around me. I'm currently working two jobs; one at a family business with all adult men, and the other at a local small business with a handful of people my own age (this is the only place I can actually meet people and girls right now).

I get hit on and pursued by below average girls a lot, including overweight ones, but I don't seem to have much success with even 5-7s either. They'll be all cool in the beginning but then they'll friendzone me. But, for a while, I admittedly wasn't even TRYING to talk to girls because I was preoccupied with other things; that probably explains most of it.

My personality is pretty serious, focused, mature, active (obviously I work out, and I play golf and like to be physically fit), but I lack a social/friend group so that makes it harder. I'm thinking about joining the military as one last chance to turn my social and sexual success around because I'm starting to feel very lonely in the world and want to change it before it's too late.

I would appreciate comments on my physique and looks and/or if you think the problem is more personality and simply not taking enough chances to make moves.