how to preemptively avoid LTR from denying/withholding sex?

ay-fuh-q · 2020-07-28T23:11:10+00:00

1) Don't make them an LTR right away.
2) Just keep fucking them. Not rape, of course.
3) Be rid of them when they start denying.

I was denied (for valid reasons) maybe twice in 10 years. Don't become a deadbedrooms chump. If your girl stops putting out and stops sucking dick, she's no longer worthy of a monogamous relationship. We don't need monogamy for roommates and friends.

Yes. It is that simple.

itiswr1tten · 2020-07-28T23:30:37+00:00

HSP's How To Manage Your Bitches covers this. Promote carefully and after extensive vetting.

2nd most important bit comes from pook - always keep 2 in the kitty. Never be a kept man all the way. Keep some reserves on your Bitch Bench that are "just friends".

What, you think THEY don't do that 2nd part?

DeepC1980 · 2020-07-28T23:29:09+00:00

Dread, don't get complacent, reward her for good behaviour and withdraw attention for bad behaviour, keep her chasing something

TXJohn83 · 2020-07-29T04:49:36+00:00

You should not be clearly defining LTR with the girl in the first place, the sense of security promotes lazy behaviors on their part. If a girl withholds sex, you withhold attention. That solution will lead to her putting out, or you are not dealing with her shit anymore its a win/win.

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2020-07-29T00:23:23+00:00

It depends. At the start, it's all about attraction and comfort. As the situation progresses, you need to use frame, space, and dread.

Biggest mistake you can make is rushing the process. Men initiate seduction, then it's the women's job to pursue. Plates must spin themselves.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-07-29T14:34:30+00:00

You don't. You take her down off the pedestal you've put her on. Then stop concerning yourself about something you have very little control over.

When she starts saying no on a regular basis, you simply say "no" to the relationship and start packing up her stuff.

Not willing to dump her for refusing sex regularly?

Congratulations- you deserve the worst she has to offer. Go crawl back into your self-pity hole where you came from.

Title	how to preemptively avoid LTR from denying/withholding sex?
Author	goatenciusmaximus
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Date	July 28, 2020 11:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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