A college student's lament. (Update.)

[deleted] · 2013-10-13T18:20:19+00:00

I find it frustrating that hot single girls don't make accounts on dating websites.

Think about it for a second. Hot, single girls can walk outside and find anyone they want. The only hot girls you'll find online are the ones who've rode the cock carousel/tower and is looking to settle down with a beta. So, typically, any girl 30+.

Unattractiveness can depend on your dress style, too. It's gonna seem cheesy, but in my middle school days, I was Daddy Warbucks in the play for Annie. As such, I got to wear practically a tux. Sweet as fuck. There was a play right after school one day, so I got to wear my costume during the day. A girl that normally ignores me and passes me off as a "geek" was like "Dayum, Goin looks good!" So I went from typical nerd to stud, merely based on my clothing. Maybe look into that. Find a style that works for you.

puaSenator · 2013-10-13T21:04:30+00:00

It has very little to do with your attractiveness. That's simply not the case for men. You may think attractiveness has a lot to play because being attractive makes it easier. Good looking guys tend to have more confidence because they are good looking. They have had an easier more entitled life, so the confidence and game they have comes from that. Inherently the looks have little to do with it, but is instead of the personality that comes from inherently being good looking.

Also, you need to understand that doing tons of approaches isn't going to fix your personal problems, such as neediness, desperations, and seeking validation. Doing mass approaches is simply meant for one thing, and one thing only: getting over AA. Don't expect to find a girlfriend doing mass approaches, because that's not the point.

So it seems like you have inner game issues which are, unbenounced to you, shouting out to the entire world wherever you go.

Obviously get in shape, because why not. It can only help. But Jesus Christ dude, read up on solving your inner game problems. Check out Models which is hugely popular and a great read, and No More Mr Nice Guy which a lot of people around here really rave about.

griesuschrist · 2013-10-13T21:38:46+00:00

Sounds like you are on the right path but you might be jumping the gun on some of your actions.

Don't add girls on Facebook. This gives them power and feeds their attention needs and costs them nothing. Just have a good time and don't worry about even ever contacting them again.

This is what gives you the power.

Like I said, you are on the right path but you seem to let your blue pill tendencies sneak in at bad moments.

James_Coook · 2013-10-13T19:25:44+00:00

Yeah I agree with not a lot of hot girls being on dating sites. The only dating sites those broads seem to be interested in are sugar daddy sites like "seekingarrangement.com" so that they can pimp themselves out for cash and prizes.

[deleted] · 2013-10-14T07:36:48+00:00

Hello. I just started university as well. My guess is you gamed a lot of girls at parties and had a lot of conversations over dancing hookups. They were all over you, gave you their number and she went back to her dorm and you to yours. I dont think you should beat yourself up for never having more with those girls. Yesterday I met 2 girls in the dining commons when they asked me about ketchup on noodles. I told them to sit with us upon which I invited them to bowl. They agreed, I brought a good looking friend with me to their dorm where we drank some alcohol we brought. We danced with them and had a good time with them. We found out that the bowling alley was closed and without hesitation, I called a friend in off campus apartments and I took them there. I a smoothly told my friend to take them all the way there and that id meet them there. Bought beer setup beer pong and played some music. We had a fucking fun night where more girls and guys showed up. Today I see them at the dining commons and they act like the fun they had was just a dream or something. I guess what I'm trying to say is getting more time with girls takes something different. Read this book and if you don't find things interesting in the first thirty pages, pm me and give me your best insult. Conquer your campus- mark redman

Just google it. First thing is free pdf. Read it while you are in the bathroom or something

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Pushnikov · 2013-10-14T13:31:23+00:00

1. Girls are crap at addressing pure physical attractiveness. On the other hand, you can stick 100 men in a room and they can all agree who the hottest chick is within a certain margin.

2. Stick 100 girls within a room and they'll be all over the place with what guys are "attractive". And notice, women have different words. They're not actually "progressive" indicators. They mean very different things. "Hot" isn't a more advanced version of "Cute." and different than "Sexy".

There is no TRUE single attractiveness for a woman. They don't think that way.

What they're looking for in your sexual attractiveness is your social message in your appearance. Clothing, style, message. "Bad boy", "Success", "Nerdy", etc. That is what they see and look at, NOTHING ELSE. Different girls will pick up on what they want from that message if it suits them.

Muscular looks good because it is an easy manly look. You can look manly in a lot of ways. IN a uniform, in a cock-rocket vehicle, etc.

What you need to really focus on, and I wish someone told me this when I was younger is... focus on sending a message in your appearance. My style was always a bit haphazard, and people saw that. One day I'd look spanking, the next day I just dressed cozy. People saw the discrepancy. The inconsistency confused people. Being consistent is important.

anon_k · 2013-10-13T18:57:39+00:00

You have to be cool. You can't just play cool one day and then act desperate the next. Always be cool. Don't add a girl on facebook. Let her add you. If she doesn't, oh well. If a girl senses even a hint of desperation from she will mark you are a creep. Don't let the rejections get you down, think positively, and never chase a girl.

replyaccount · 2013-10-13T20:17:51+00:00

However, I am going: to start working out intensely so as to get a hot body; to improve my grooming; and to dress better.

Do it. I've seen plenty of downright ugly dudes pull hot chicks because they're gym freaks and wear fitting shirts.

notice where the seams on the sleeves line up with his shoulders, it's tight fitting but it's the right size, it's important not to wear shirts that are too small or it will look like you're trying too hard.

only wear business attire where appropriate and make sure it fits as well. clothes that would otherwise look great can make you look silly if they don't fit correctly.

lepies_pegao · 2013-10-14T14:33:06+00:00

When I started reading your post, I thought this was going to be a post of a guy just ranting how unlucky he is blah blah blah... BUT I kept on reading and I'm glad you came to the obvious conclusion!
good luck on your journey!

kadidle51 · 2013-10-14T20:22:14+00:00

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1. Girls are crap at addressing pure physical attractiveness. On the other hand, you can stick 100 men in a room and they can all agree who the hottest chick is within a certain margin.

2. Stick 100 girls within a room and they'll be all over the place with what guys are "attractive". And notice, women have different words. They're not actually "progressive" indicators. They mean very different things. "Hot" isn't a more advanced version of "Cute." and different than "Sexy".