Hello, whenever i meet a new lady in dating scene, i feel she is trying to impress me hard, they try everyway to faltter me. but later i feel like i am chasing her, and her tantrums. for instance, a few months ago i met a girl went out 2 3 times, but faced timed a little more due to this covid thing. she got tatts on her arms, i complemented them very casually and she removed her top, and said she could show me more. and later asked me to have a shower with her, i said I am not in the mood now, and completely dodged that shower thing till now. so fast forward to today, she is being little hard. and this isnt just one incident, i feel that after few months i seem less attractive and boring to them. fellas tell me how i could be messing up ?