I'm asking the community for some light because I thought I was redpilling until I lost frame.

I've been with this girl for 2 years. I'm American, shes Spanish. Now here's the kicker. She lives in Spain and I live in the US. We would fly to meet up and party at raves and whatnot at least once a year. We already established that we both want to have a future together. Were both family orientated. Shes a mom and I'm a dad, although my son doesnt live with me.

Anyway, were both always comfortable partying and going on doing things. We send each other pictures of our festivities and whatnot. However, lately, I've been really trying to swallow the pull because I know shes a single mom. Single moms are a bit infamous for being unstable when it comes to decision-making, ho-ing around, manipulative, ect.

Now, I've been with alot of girls, plates and relationships. I've seen alot of the things they do that are talked about on TRP. Lately, I've been paranoid that maybe she is another ho because I tend to attract crazy girls. She does have girls nights out. She doesnt party all the time and her dad just passed away so I know shit is hard for her.

Now, I opened up to her and told her alot of my past a couple times recently. Although my pictures are on her FB and IG, she did remove the one of us kissing at one point. I didn't care too much because maybe it was a bit tacky. However, my gut feeling has been raging because I feel like I'm the one trying to tell her more about me. I already know much about her but I hardly know anything of her past relationships other than her baby daddy was controlling and didnt let her do anything.

I was finally firm for once with her telling her I dont want her to go out to bars/parties anymore and if she doesnt like it, she can be single. I was kinda douchey about it but whatever. I proceeded to tell her about why I am not comfortable. I told her exmaples, ect. Ect.

Long story short, she got mad and said "it's not my fault you had bad relationships. It's all my fault. Good luck with that"

I asked her if she wanted to tell about. She said no.

I obviously lost frame and told her I'm sorry and I'm going to get professional help. Hasn't responded and dont expect her to respond anytime soon since shes in Madrid with her mom on vacation. I honestly dont know what to do. I lost frame all over the floor, I know.

What should I do about this girl for the sake of LTR? My gut feeling is telling me this relationship is fill of shit but I get paranoid. Is it just me having a frame problem? It's long distance so it's easy to screw around and hide it.