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| 1 | Dating younger women, your experiences? I'm seeing success dating 18-20 years olds as a 30 year old.What is your level in the local language? How important is it to have? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Dating younger women, your experiences? I'm seeing success dating 18-20 years olds as a 30 year old.Which countries in eastern europe are your favorites for long term? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | What's your best way of inviting a woman for a drink etc.? (The 1st date)For your second phone message, since in most cases they didn’t offer up a day on the app, do you put the day, time and place all in the same message? “How about X bar tomorrow at 8” Or do you first get her to commit to a day then pitch the time and place? I’m asking because my problem isn’t their interest but genuine plans that night. Attractive women usually have plans most nights so the odds of her being free are low on a specific night I offer. That’s why I feel it’s leaving behind a lot of p… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What's your best way of inviting a woman for a drink etc.? (The 1st date)When I try to pitch drinks in my second message on the app I sometimes get them saying they want to message more before meeting. How often do you get these obstacles? For me it’s about half the time. And how do you handle them? Do you actually engage them in pointless banter and waste time before trying again? For me they never offer up a day they’re free (like in your messages) without me specifically asking. So once you have their number you’re pitching a random day and time hoping they’re fre… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 09:33 AM |
| 5 | Why get into an LTR?Interesting. Have you made any posts that go into depth on how you created and maintain such a relationship? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 08:45 AM |
| 6 | Why get into an LTR?What are those multitude of ways in your case? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 08:41 AM |
| 10 | “What are you looking for?” on tinder. What are possible answers that will excite/intrigue her but still give plausible deniability?This is great! Looking for suggestions on this level. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | What Will be the TRP take on a movie "500 days of summer".Doesn’t show in search on that channel. Got a link? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | LTR makes penis size commentsAny comedians you recommend who are still actively writing or up and coming? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 09:51 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend got offended when I wanted to have sex. What's going on?Mods please ban idiots like this. There’s plenty of other subreddits they can ask these relationship questions that have nothing to do with the red pill. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Regardless of what the girl does. The guy holds his frame, stays assertive and does not let her entitlement and bitchiness overpower himI’m out of the loop, why does he say to date bipolar chicks? Do you have the link where he gives this advice? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Plate keeps flakingGreat point but what do you do if she turns down the spontaneous invite a couple times in a row? How do you do it without appearing needy or losing your value? If the girl expects you to always initiate but has a busy schedule how do you handle not making plans in advance? | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Text and dm gameI agree. Got any sample conversations you wouldn’t mind sharing? How you go from pings to the date. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Meeting people and dating especially changed after 2012Different how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants space but still contacts meMods ban this guy. There is nothing in this post that has to do with TRP. He should be posting this garbage in a relationships sub. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 05:30 AM |
| 2 | first dates - how do you decide whether to go out or chill at your place?Can you post some conversations where they’ve actually ended up coming straight to your place? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage ThemExactly my point. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/20 03:27 PM |
| 3 | OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage ThemWhat about the “im not sharing you” part? How do guys in this arrangement present that without coming across insecure or jealous? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/20 03:27 PM |
| 5 | OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage ThemWere you always a strong extrovert? Tips for becoming more like this? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/20 02:57 PM |
| 7 | OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage ThemNobody who claims to have these arrangements ever talks about how they did it. Among the people I know who actually have this it was either dumb luck or the girl was just so into them they didn’t have to use any strategy other than ask. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Retention rate tanks if I share what I think are cool things about myself?Could you share some text conversations where you get them to come straight to your place? Working on this myself with some successes but could improve. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | If red pill is about maximizing prospects and "fuckin these hoes to sleep" shouldn't that include beta game as well? (just hear me out.)Good point about it not mattering when you have lots of women that one doesn’t fuck you right away. My biggest sticking point is getting butthurt when a girl doesn’t give me her “best” like making me wait even until the second meeting when she’s had one night stands before. Or taking too long to text back when she texts other guys immediately and with more enthusiasm. It’s a major ego thing on my end and it’s made me lose countless lays and plates as I block and delete them in frustration. Funny… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | GF is now mate guarding, what’s a solid game plan moving forward?How often did you take lessons and how often go to the parties to practice? Btw did you have a dedicated dance partner that you practiced with outside of lessons or just various people from the parties and lessons? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | GF is now mate guarding, what’s a solid game plan moving forward?Offtopic but what is your level in bachata sensual and how did you get to that level? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Anyone feel like the Red/Black Pill is too depressing....what’s next?The friends part is what bothers me most. I agree something is really wrong. What to do about it? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 05:59 AM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] Do you want to be a manwhore or do you want to only bang hot chicks?Interesting. How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 12:36 PM |
| 3 | I suspect my wife is cheating on me, how do i find out if she does?Where have you seen this? Genuinely interested but have never seen this advised. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 08:20 AM |
| 3 | I suspect my wife is cheating on me, how do i find out if she does?Got any links? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend has on "bucket list" to go to a male strip showDo you think her wanting to go to the strip club eventually should still be addressed? Shouldn’t he still make his boundaries clear to her? Either she likes the ffm idea and he gets his threesome but his girl still wants to go to the strip club, or she doesn’t like the idea so gets more adamant to go to the strip club since she feels like she needs to “make things even”. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 08:16 AM |
| 1 | I have been with a girl who is probably the closest thing to a unicorn. Should I keep her around and wife her up eventually?Excellent points. But I guarantee OP won’t take it to heart. He’s made up his mind and came here for validation. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: For those running social circle game exclusively, how are you doing?What other circles have you experimented or had success with? Other than the writing ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: For those running social circle game exclusively, how are you doing?Writing meetups are a great idea. Do you have any other ideas? What did you mean by focal point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: For those running social circle game exclusively, how are you doing?What do you mean by socially flexible? How do you keep yourself from getting jealous in ltrs? Were you always like this or you were able to change into this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 12:00 PM |
| 23 | So everyone knows that a guy being short, fat, bald or having a small penis is unattractive, what's the female equivalent?fat old cellulite sagging breasts no ass roast beef labia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 11:41 PM |
| 0 | LTR doing 4 month internship in south africa. Is the relationship doomed?Edited | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:48 PM |
| 4 | LTR doing 4 month internship in south africa. Is the relationship doomed?You say she’s submissive but she obviously values her “career” more than her man. She’s not submissive for you. The relationship is over. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Tinder match is scared and nervous to meet in personThey don’t need your permission. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Tinder match is scared and nervous to meet in personThis garbage belongs in the asktrp sub. Why aren’t fools like this banned from the main sub? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenDon’t worry we are all rooting for your certain bright future ahead. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenI fully support whatever you need to tell yourself to survive the coming decades. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenGod bless girls in their glorious 20’s. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenSo easy to spot the painfully clear biases of a woman who isn’t in her glorious 20’s anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenYet here you always end up, as the backup girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenThey’re fine with banging you only once in a while. It’s not that complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenThe best part is it actually works on these girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenSame with any girl (OP) who claims all guys she gets with are assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenSpoken like a woman who’s not in her 20’s anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenI agree! Men who can’t attract girls a decade younger than them should be shamed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenMost men in their 30’s are unable to get a girl a decade youger than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Insecure/ clingy women has ruined dating for both men and womenNever trust a girl who says all the guys she talks to have crazy exes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about age gap relationships?Not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about age gap relationships?Don’t forget guys who can’t get younger women also severely hate on guys who can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about age gap relationships?You sound like a woman who isn’t 20 anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about age gap relationships?Your uncle is my hero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 12 | Plate called me out on being a hoe, how do I handle it?More than once a week is never just a plate. You have yourself a girlfriend and are trying to convince yourself otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Fucked up big timeCould you talk a bit more about the personal journal? Or an example of an entry? Sounds interesting. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Women who are connoisseurs of foreign cock, what has been your experience?Akaash Singh Kumail Nanjiani Hasan Minhaj Aziz Ansari Check them out! And do let me know what you think! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 09:36 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Women who are connoisseurs of foreign cock, what has been your experience?Who are the comedians? I really like indian american comedians but havent found indian british. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?Where do you tend to meet introverts? I find the girls I meet in real life are definitely not. But even if they are introverts, thanks to online dating they don’t have to go out in order to meet lots of guys. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 07:25 PM |
| 3 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?I find that when I tell girls that I’m not monogamous, they see it as a sort of competition and want to do the same. If I see them once or twice a week they assume that I’m with other girls the other nights so they won’t want to sit around doing nothing and then meet up with other guys. Am I just meeting a certain type of woman or is there something I’m missing in your process? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?Fine but how did you set that expectation where she is to act in a certain way? Did you actually verbalize it? I’d like to know how did you make it clear to her its unacceptable for her to be with other guys. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?Do you have a post on how you set this uo from the beginning? I assume it means it’s open for you but not for them? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?How did you do it where she wouldn’t do the same in return? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Outlook on womenCould you please share some messaging tips and sample conversations maybe? Would really help. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Why does my good guy game work so well?I’m curious what your texting looks like in this way. Would you mind posting some samples? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Plate I've been spending more time with recently is getting to comfortable jokingly calling me a bitch.I like the changing your tone drastically idea. Any other examples where you should use this (other than her disrespecting you) to change her behavior? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Plate I've been spending more time with recently is getting to comfortable jokingly calling me a bitch.What should he have done the first time? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 07:33 AM |
| 4 | What are some warning signs that a potential or current partner is settling for you and was never sincerely attracted to you?That’s a very good insight. Might be worth a post of its own on trp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 12:25 PM |
| 4 | What are some warning signs that a potential or current partner is settling for you and was never sincerely attracted to you?Why even positive comparisons indicate she wasn’t really into you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Is forgiveness the most worst/beta trait ever?Interesting idea. Bitterness and resentment meaning their payment or yours? | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 11:38 AM |
| 1 | On your improvement journey, how do you socialize with BP people?Any tips for finding such people? | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 11:19 AM |
| 2 | LTR wants to meet "old friend" of hers.During a soft next do you ignore all her messages and calls? And when you do end it you just pretend like nothing happened? If she pushes you on it you just say you were busy with work or something? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 10:10 AM |
| 2 | LTR wants to meet "old friend" of hers.From your earlier comment when you say not to tell her your boundaries because she can work around them, how can we communicate our dealbreakers. I have stricter boundaries and tighter expectations (as do many guys on trp) than most guys do, so could it be possible she genuinely doesn’t know she’s doing anything wrong? How do we “train” them if we don’t communicate these things? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Can't get over gf slept with ex right before commitmentI would have also chosen the verbal humiliation route. Damn I guess I really am masochistic. Any tips to get over the need to hold a grudge and get back at a girl for perceived wrongdoings? Negative Emotion Monster is actually a good way to describe me unfortunately. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 04:45 AM |
| 3 | LTR wants to meet "old friend" of hers.Am I being unreasonable to hard next in that situation? If she sees this guy then I’m done with her and permanently. Too extreme or insecure of me? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Can't get over gf slept with ex right before commitmentI’m interested could you go into detail on this? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | My Ex confessed to cheating - it's been a giftHow did you find mentors? And how do you manage your relationships with them? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/19 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO!The west? You telling me anyone actually has it figured out in the east? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Wait, what? We hate Rollo Tomassi now?Wasn’t their cringey ass promo video enough for you to realize it’s not worth anyone’s time? And certainly not for over 1000 dollars a ticket! | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipWhy do you hope you‘ll change your mind? How did you set up this arrangement in the first place? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipThis is great. You have done one sided exclusive relationships? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Are there any other helpful subreddits to subscribe to?You’re more sad than funny. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 10:19 PM |
| 13 | Are there any other helpful subreddits to subscribe to?Oh so you’re a skinny bitch. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned.I see why she cheated on you. You are naive and gullible. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned.Respected why? She did it either to assuage her guilt, test to see how you react to see if she could do it again or continue doing it if she still is, force you to end the relationship because she has one foot out the door and doesn’t want to end it herself, or to prevent you from ending things later when she has more to lose once she’s deeper invested and marriage and kids are on the table. A confession gives her no credit. None whatsoever. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 01:05 PM |
| 7 | Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned.Your last sentence. Are there though? My time in the field keeps telling me no. Not if it’s today and she’s young and attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned.You gave her the real answer? Why didn’t you treat it as a shit test? Which is exactly what it was. Answering that question honestly never leads to anything good. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 12:54 PM |
| 6 | Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned.Good points but we know girls stick around with guys all the time who cheat on them so I’d expect she’d forgive me. Whereas I still wouldn’t forgive her. Btw if she confessed she made out with a stranger (I don’t know what you mean by second base I stopped using that term when I stopped being 13) let’s be honest you wouldn’t believe that’s all that happened. I think you would still end it don’t you? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned.How did she even know you were sleeping with two other girls? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 12:41 PM |
| 1 | What book would you recommend to get a 15 year old?I don’t live in his city unfortunately. Thought this is better than nothing. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | What book would you recommend to get a 15 year old?I didn’t say equally nicely. Read my post properly before choosing to comment. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 03:06 PM |
| 5 | What book would you recommend to get a 15 year old?It’s great advice but I unfortunately don’t live in his city. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Is this the anger phase? Is there any way past it?You said eastern countries not eastern european countries you illiterate fuck. What eastern european countries do you actually think support your statement? I live there. The instagram and tinder age has made an n count of 5 be laughably low. Name ONE country where that isn’t the case. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Is this the anger phase? Is there any way past it?Which ones? As a guy who likes white girls I guarantee you that any country you have in mind is not a white country. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Is this the anger phase? Is there any way past it?Rubbish. I live in europe and that is not at all the case. What mythical country are you talking about? I can’t think of even one, even deep eastern europe, where what you said would come close to being reality. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Is this the anger phase? Is there any way past it?Enjoyed your entire string of comments in this thread. I know it’s the right way to think about it but even reading what you wrote I still get an emotional anger reaction. Are you really as nonreactive in real life about all this or is it for the purposes of the comments? If the former how the hell did you actually change your thinking about this and get rid of the emotional sting? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Is this the anger phase? Is there any way past it?What do you mean by enjoy them as people? Apart from sex if I’m never going to fulfill my (naive and unrealistic) notions of marriage and true love then what else do I stand to gain? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Is this the anger phase? Is there any way past it?Extra judicially? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Firstly, get the fuck out!This is actually how every relationship should be. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/19 07:53 AM |
| 1 | She told me today that a lot of guys have been hitting her up latelyWhat about that response would make her friends not like him? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Gather your tribe, do not homogenize yourself.How did you organize it? I want to do this but I think my friends would think a mens self improvement group is a bit over the top. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Gather your tribe, do not homogenize yourself.How did you get them on board? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours, it's just your turn": a defeatist cuck mantra for losersRegarding the gatekeeper model, if you’re fucking her one night a week (at a maximum if you’re not exclusive), is she really not having sex with anyone else the remaining 6 nights a week? I see a lot of talk about people who claim to have this one sided exclusivity setup but none of them talk about how they actually managed to make it happen or maintain it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | As long as you're not marrying her, the right amount to "invest" in a woman is however much it takes to get laidThis all-or-nothing idea where a woman either overtly agrees to be your hook-up slut or else you're being played for free meals isn't how things really work. Could you please talk more about this? I’m VERY DEEPLY stuck in this mentality. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | As long as you're not marrying her, the right amount to "invest" in a woman is however much it takes to get laidBut isn’t your approach kind of disagreeing with the post? Why would you go unresponsive and stop initiating? The point of this post is it shouldn’t bother you if she’s basically admitted that she got pumped and dumped regularly but now wants something different. I’m asking because I feel the same as you I get disgusted when they say things like this and I roll off. I figured this post would help me not be so extreme and get more lays in the process. How are you approaching all this? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | As long as you're not marrying her, the right amount to "invest" in a woman is however much it takes to get laidThis is exactly what’s holding me back from taking your advice. The feeling of her thinking she got the best of me and is winning. I’m happy to play the 3 date game but because of my own insecurities I want her to know I’m the guy who gets laid on the first night of meeting the girl. I don’t wait to be lumped into the same category in her mind as the other guys who waited 3 dates only because they had no better options. What do I do? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Which realisations have shattered/changed your world view the most? (Trp or not)What is real love and what are healthy relationships? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Caught LTR of 7 years cheating, should I let the other guy know she's been playing us both?Why does it only make sense then? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 07:13 AM |
| 1 | What podcasts do you recommend for adding value to your life?Which specific documentaries have added value to your life? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How would you respond in this situation?Damn. This explain when girls bring up seemingly random shit. It’s to give them fuel for their justifications. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Gf found out was smashing 2 plates whilst she away for month. Any tips on how to salvage LTR?Great post do you have more advice on how to make her accept that you’re just gonna cheat? The line you used is great but like you said she’s gonna throw all kinds of tests at you. And is a fitness test a shit test? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 08:01 PM |
| 6 | Need some advice on a LTRYour trashy single mother is banging latin lovers in Spain who are far more exciting and masculine than you’ll ever be. She removed that picture of you and her kissing because she doesn’t want those studs to know how low her standards sunk with you. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl responded to my text after two weeks. She’s not into me at all, right?It’s no surprise she’s the only girl that has ever shown interest in you. Read the damn sidebar and stop being this pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 12:26 PM |
| 2 | I have become numb to everything - hobbies, education, women etc.Could you please talk about this dopamine fast in a lot more detail (perhaps its own post)? Sounds extremely interesting. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 07:51 AM |
| 1 | LTR asked if I use her for sex.I think the role of her friends is so understated. Many relationships I’ve had were poisoned by her friends. Some are jealous that they’re losing their single friend, others just get envious of the happiness of others, and some secretly despise their friend. I think this is an area that TRP could greatly expand upon and show us how to deal with friends who have poor intentions. How does confronting the girlfriend actually play out in real life? Have you had first hand experience with this more t… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | LTR asked if I use her for sex.So no advice then. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Don’t you want a good woman as a partner you can start your own family with?As the other comment said you can’t use TRP to fulfill your bluepill goals, which you continually demonstrate by your posts on this sub. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 07:30 PM |
| 6 | LTR asked if I use her for sex.Agree and amplify is for shit tests but you say this is a comfort test so which is it? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | LTR asked if I use her for sex.What specifically do you do with that friend? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How to act the next few daysYou’re going to visit the family of your EX? And your reason being that the tickets were already paid for?! What has become of this subreddit that only one other person in this thread has pointed out that you simply do not even go. I would judge any woman who wouldn’t use your foolishness and inexperience to her full advantage. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Need a diagnosis: Is this Oneitis or am I falling for this woman?Ask yourself why you felt it was necessary to date her exclusively from the start. This was your only mistake here but a big one. It probably came from a feeling of weakness or incapability to meet other girls or (if you’re actually able to get attractive girls with any level of ease) feeling that no other girl can give you what this one did in those first few days or weeks. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity?Neither you nor me know or will ever know the average or the distribution of the number of sexual partners of women. You are speculating just as much as OP. Maybe his bias serves to give him comfort in feeling overwhelmed that he can’t keep up, and maybe yours serves to make you feel that one day you’ll actually be able to find a worthy partner if you so choose. His question is certainly not “stupid” as you say. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity?Nicely put. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 10:38 PM |
| 3 | If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity?This isn’t the right place for you to try to justify your questionable life choices to yourself. Try a diary. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity?Holy fuck. Never thought of it like that. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Asking a girl if she came.That’s like asking why would a woman stay in a depressing financial situation when she’s with a total stud but he’s got a dead end job. Women’s attraction is based on a man’s dominance, power, confidence and status. Not his ability or desire to give her money or orgasms. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?Your math is fine. But think about the cumulative effects. How many times was she alpha widowed along the way? How many of those men were far out of her league (because a cool guy is happy to just fuck her but would never consider committing to her) leading her to have unrealistic expectations from the men that come after because she thinks she’s hotter shit than she really is. Plus the idea if you accept it that the more sexual partners she has had the worse her ability to pair bond in the futu… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 11:23 AM |
| 0 | Old friend invites me for a movie at her place.Is it glaringly clear that you are deeply worried that the unicorn you are hoping to get one day will cheat on you. You can’t stop it. Improve yourself and enjoy the many things you can get from them. Or continue whining about how society isn’t how you would like it to be. Swallowing the red pill means accepting the way the world really works. You have learned very little here. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Old friend invites me for a movie at her place.You are sad because on some level you understand that you’re the guy girls cheat on rather than cheat with. Guys like you are the reason that other category of men get laid a lot more than usual. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 07:42 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed with cancelled date?He’s not one of her top choices. She didn’t offer a different date which she would if she wanted to make sure she’s not losing this catch. OP, soft next for a couple of weeks unless she initiates first then hit her up if you still want to. This shouldn’t be a problem. You are seeing other girls, right? | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Potential plate, virgin, kept asking what we are after we made outvirgin sex is usually very boring and bland This says far more about you than about her. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Potential plate, virgin, kept asking what we are after we made outvirgin sex is usually very boring and bland This says far more about you than about her. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Potential plate, virgin, kept asking what we are after we made outWon't be up to get used for sex Wrong. Women love to be used for sex. Just because you couldn’t hack it doesn’t mean OP won’t. She probably has this fairy-tale of a relationship dream Where are you getting this rubbish from? From what you remember from your awkward teenage years? OP go for it. Be dominant and smooth and you could have yourself this new plate. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Potential plate, virgin, kept asking what we are after we made outNot his fucking problem or responsibility. Bang away if you can make it happen. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Had this chick over for the first time & didn’t fuck, we were both in our underwear & she was showing me her tits yet I didn’t smash. I prefer to fuck on the first meetup, was this bad?He tried and he failed. He wasn’t as smooth or experienced enough as the other guys she has had who were able to overcome her LMR. He is much less likely now to ever fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Plate wanted to frame me as the 'not fuckboy' type of guy. What to make of it?Agree and amplify. Let your actions show her you’re a fuckboy and let your words do the opposite. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | LTR's Friends? What should I do?The fact that she feels so safe about you to even bring up inviting him says everything you need to know about how she feels about you. You are no longer one of her top choices. Whatever you answer doesn’t matter. You’ve already lost her respect and her attraction. Your turn is over. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Quit orbiting, now she’s chasingInvite her straight over to your place. You’ll get your answer about why she’s been hitting you up. Wanting your validation or wanting your dick. I’m gonna guess it ain’t your dick. She has lost the privilege of a coffee or even drinks date. Your place or next her. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 12:03 AM |
| 4 | Asking a girl if she came.Don’t ask. Genuinely stop caring about it. Her job is to please you. She should be the one posting questions like this and worrying about whether she’s pleasing you. You’re being the woman. If anything will make her lose attraction to you it’s your need to please her not how few orgasms she’s having. I’m guessing she’s already sniffed this out about your personality and she’s already lost attraction on some level. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl if she came.Not true at all. Not true even for plates but especially not for LTRs. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Just got friendzoned... can anything be done?So what? You want a relationship where you’re the man and she respects you and treats you well? Then follow the fucking principles that TRP defines for this. Don’t want to follow it blindly? Then do it by experience. And now you have first hand experience that your desperate strategy doesn’t work at all. Read the sidebar before wasting people’s time here. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Just got friendzoned... can anything be done?You’re no longer anywhere near her top choice. She’s riding the shit out of one of her top choices or wondering why they’re not texting her back. Meanwhile you are putting your love story into words on reddit. Move on. We both didn't want a friends with benefits relationship but possibly an LTR Why are you going for an LTR? And after a month?! What are you even doing on this subreddit? Have you learned a single thing about TRP? That’s exclusively her job. Good job, you showed her exactly what yo… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:45 PM |
| 5 | 2 month plate saying Im too aloof etc.Shit test. You’re doing things right. You’re not the guy smothering her with affection and emotion and making her repulsed by your presence. She is trying to figure out whether you’re the real deal or whether you’ll cave in to her pushing you to change your actions. In this moment she is extremely excited by the prospect that you are who she’s hoping you are. Do not even consider apologizing or justifying your behavior. Read that post in the main sub on “DARE not DEER”. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?Fair point. I really hope you’ll take a rigorous approach to vetting girls in the future and seeing their game for what it is. It is not nice to see men being taken advantage of so blatantly and mostly falling for it or rationalizing it. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:22 PM |
| 1 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?Maybe her behavior is throwing me off? Your lack of experience and understanding of women is throwing you off. I guess the part I'm having trouble with is how she acts towards me. She’s 27. She’s doing exactly what an aging woman competing with girls a decade younger than her would do. Which is to convince a beta that he’s the best she’s ever had. And she’s clearly already found her gullible, clueless beta and is doing a splendid job at fulfilling the female sexual strategy. I’m impressed by her… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?You are not considering anything. You are still justifying her poor behavior. I feel bad for people who do that because they cannot be helped. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?You are a fool if you believe that. And I know you do. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?27 cocks That’s not a unicorn. That’s a girl you just had such deep oneitis for that even today you don’t see it for what it was. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?they weren’t worth committing to Women aren’t the gatekeepers of commitment. The men she wanted determined her not to be worth committing to. You are trying so desperately hard to buy into what your sole pussy provider is selling you that you are not even seeing how TRP applies to your situation st all. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?She bailed on me 3 times You’re nowhere near her top choice. I forced her to make a choice You proposed the relationship to her rather than her spending months trying her hardest to prove to you that she’s the most qualified for the role? You gave away your most valuable asset for nothing. Good job, she sees your worth for what it is. She chose me Of the men who had been fucking her at that time you’re the only one who even offered her exclusivity. fuck her better than anyone else has I bet she … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Old friend invites me for a movie at her place.If you want to have an ongoing affair, go ahead and have one. You’ll learn whether you enjoy it or not and whether you’re cut out for it or not. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Old friend invites me for a movie at her place.If you’re looking for a woman who doesn’t shit test then congratulations you now have a boyfriend. A woman will always shit test. It’s how they’re built to gauge a man’s strength. It’s different than simply nagging due to her lame personality. A woman worthy of an LTR won't give you countless shit tests Half wrong. In other words, wrong. If it’s incessant, ask yourself if it’s because you’re failing them or passing them. If you’re failing them then of course she’ll keep testing and it’s your fuc… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 10:40 PM |
| -5 | Old friend invites me for a movie at her place.Wrong. If you want to keep your LTR, don’t get caught. Or even more accurately, read the great post from a little while ago about the difference between men and women cheating and learn that if she leaves because of it, you were actually not her top choice. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Old friend invites me for a movie at her place.Don’t listen to this white knight. TRP is amoral. Cheat if you want to. Don’t cheat if you don’t want to. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 10:24 PM |
| 37 | Hypergamy is MonogamyCheating on your girlfriend is almost mandatory if you want to see where she sees you in the hierarchy of men available to her. If she leaves over it you have your answer. This explains the countless times I’ve seen girls stick around after their guys cheated over and over and I never understood it until now. This post is really underrated. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/18 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy is MonogamyThis doesn’t explain the phenomenon of girls cheating with guys that these girls themselves deem to be less attractive or inferior to her partner. So what is going on there? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/18 04:13 PM |
| 4 | On SlutsWell put. But how the hell does one learn to think this way? I naturally want to do exactly what you said not to. Be a jerk about her promiscuity and punish them for it. I got anxiety just by reading your comment. What’s my path out of this? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/18 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Can she love you more than her first love?You edited your question. Find a way to deal with your insecurity. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 07:13 PM |
| 6 | Can she love you more than her first love?While it’s your turn, yes. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys just enjoy the decline?Rules changed how? | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Gonna try and plate this prostitute.. thoughts?What country is it that cheap? Even in lower income countries it’s more expensive. Anyway my opinion about plating is you can find girls with fewer red flags even for something casual. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | How to game hipster girls?How did you get into the hipster scene? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneThanks. How do you actually refill those from the original cologne bottles? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneI meant to ask which concentration, eau de cologne or eau de parfum, he recommends for the mens fragrances. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 10:28 AM |
| 1 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneDo you usually go with cologne or perfume? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneDo stores usually sell samples? How large are they and how much could they cost compared to the full version? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneAre they the real ones or convincing knockoffs? Which countries are these testers coming from usually? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 04:44 AM |
| 1 | How to Smell Amazing: A Man's Guide to Buying and Wearing CologneWhere did you get the refillable pocket sprayer you use? Any links to see the one you have or recommend? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | How to really succeed at Tinder (not just another Tinder guide, this is a detailed Tinder roadmap)Any tips or resources about getting the most out of them? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 09:26 AM |
| 1 | My (Muslim) family is more extreme than I thought.What is the right action instead of JADE in general situations? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | 47/M two-year transformation storyWhat kind of pics did the photographer take? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Gf: are you happy I didn't go out?Applied against him how? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVWhen trying to gain weight is IF less appropriate? In your case it's working because you're still trying to lose weight? Would you keep doing it if you want to bulk? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Those magic 4 lettersCould you give any examples of how you work it into your conversation and how you talk about it? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | I never got around to thanking you guysHow did you work on repairing relationships with your family? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Common Tinder shittest I’ve gotten recentlyHow many matches were you getting before? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Told a girl I was seeing that I would be seeing other women as well, she was fine with it....When she does bring it up, how would you respond? Agree and amplify or any possibilities to keep the plate from crashing too soon? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I will never be Chad. And that's ok.Thanks for this! How did you learn so much about all this? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 05:46 PM |
| 2 | I will never be Chad. And that's ok.What do you mean by salivary cortisol "4x"? And is measuring for saliva better than from blood? If your cortisol is very high what can doctors do about it? I made a post about this a while back and people said the only thing is to learn relaxation and meditation techniques because there's no medical solution. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Success Story: My first weekend on TinderWhat are your first few messages like? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Success Story: My first weekend on TinderStrange that having more pics but less text leads to fewer matches. Why do you think that is? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | September 08 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadCould you describe what specific cbt exercises have worked the best for you? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | tips on getting a new social group?Any tips on the spiritual part about meeting people? Always thought those were individual activities and not effective for meeting people. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Saw TRP in Action at my Job; I Buy it NowJust curious what brought you to trp? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Handling when your girl as ask "Is it okay if I hang out with him?"Isn't this mate guarding behavior? Been reading here that it's the wrong approach in an exclusive relationship so just trying to make sense of it. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | The main lessons I've learned after 3 years of implementing TRPNow that you've accomplished so much, what's next for you? Where do you take it from here? New goals and plans for example? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to stay at a guys house after a partyThat's an apt way to describe what I'm looking for "deep connection where you feel emotionally fulfilled". The more experience I get the more I see that it's not possible for more than a short period which is quite disheartening but I'll find a way to reconcile that. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to stay at a guys house after a partyI'm struggling with the fact that I feel like I want to be in relationships but also knowing they're not viable. Had you been in relationships before and decided post RP that they aren't for you or were you always like that? How do you get your needs (if any) for female affection met? I need it and that's what's crushing me. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wants to stay at a guys house after a partyHave you sneakily demoted to plate status in practice, how did things play out? How do you prevent your feelings for her (as your ex) from getting in the way? Doesn't seem practical but I wouldn't know. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to stay at a guys house after a partyI like this approach. If she tries to justify going and downplay how bad it is and ends up going, how would you suggest proceeding? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 03:15 PM |
| 2 | 4 Year LTR was there at my worst. Helped, nurtured, treated me like her king. She's being cheating all this fucking time.You say you learned your lesson from previously trying to control girlfriends and failing miserably. What were these failures? In hindsight do you wish you hadn't taken the lenient laid-back stance that you did with this girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 04:19 PM |
| 1 | 47/M matching with 20 somethings on Tinder...Thanks! Were you on TRT before you got on HGH? Apart from fat loss were there other changes you noticed when adding HGH into the mix? What's a 'clinical' dosage of HGH that clinics tend to prescribe? Roughly how much do you pay for it? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 04:29 PM |
| 1 | 47/M matching with 20 somethings on Tinder...Thanks. And what kinds of things did you tell them in order for them to prescribe HGH? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | 47/M matching with 20 somethings on Tinder...How did you go about getting doctor prescribed HGH? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 05:48 PM |
| 12 | She doesn't know that other girl is only a 7, she just knows it's another girl.Why do you believe it's a mistake to flaunt other women? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Can anything really rival peaking in college?What are some of these non drinking events you attend, any examples you could share? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/17 06:22 PM |
| 1 | New Approach to Tinder Gets More Attractive Women with a Few PitfallsOk so she sees your place before the date then again after the date.. Do you ever try it without plausible deniability and get them to agree to have drinks at your place? How do you usually pitch that? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 10:33 AM |
| 1 | New Approach to Tinder Gets More Attractive Women with a Few PitfallsFantastic that you get some to come straight to your place for a drink. Could you please post some conversations of the parts where you ask them this (like what happens right before you pitch it and how do they usually respond right after.. Bet they throw some shit tests before agreeing, also wonder what they are and how you handle them). Been wanting to experiment with being more bold and trying this so it would be great to know how you do it! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/16 10:09 AM |
| 1 | I want the brutal honest truth about a vasectomyWhat do they use on a no needle no scalpel method? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Life After 30: How to Be an Old GuyI really appreciate you taking the time to answer. I'm now reading the book on your recommendation and really liking it, so thanks. I never tried muscle relaxation exercises before because I figured they wouldn't have more than a short term effect and would help only with physical state and not mental state of mind (as opposed to CBT - any experience with that btw?), but seems like I could have been wrong about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Life After 30: How to Be an Old GuyThanks for this. Could you talk about your personal practice with this? How much time do you personally set aside for this practice, and a bit more about what you do and how (thanks for those keywords to google as well). | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 04:36 PM |
| 0 | Girls who will fuck you but don't give blowjobs. How to handle this?You fucked up with the first chick. She was being reasonable. Could you expand on this? You mean reasonable when she said she doesn't know if I'm clean? I assumed it was a test. If I felt it was legitimate it wouldn't have bothered me. When she meets the alpha in the club and takes him home you know she isn't telling him this shit, or she is and he knows how to pass the test, which I don't. The dick looks fine. Showered right before. Well groomed. Looks good and healthy, so that wasn't the issue… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/15 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Had a date with a gorgeous, Redpill textbook, wall approaching ex party girl. Admits to a 50 partner count.I have a bar about 15 minutes away from where I live. Its small, mostly quite. Its kinda out there, location wise. I always insist on this bar even if it's far from the girls. I start the entire interaction on the right foot as they will enter my frame and follow my lead. If they don't want to meet there I make it clear its that or nothing. I figure that if they are willing to make the effort and drive all the way here they are into me Great! Would you mind sharing an example of a text interacti… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plungeAnother rule I laid down, we don't split anything. If we're buying a new couch, I pay for it. If we need to buy a new table, you pay for it. It doesn't have to be equal but I will never split. She agreed that my rules were fair. What is the reasoning behind this rule? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 09:37 AM |
| 1 | My Omega to AF TRP year.These recurring events are a great idea! Btw how did you meet these guys to begin with? As part of your year long transformation did you make any cool new guy friends (how so?) or was it mostly strengthening relations with existing friends? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 11:58 AM |
| 1 | My Omega to AF TRP year.I'm building a social circle of 15-20 guy friends that are all successful. I make social events happen, so us guys can hang out together. I'm looking to do exactly this! Could you please expand on this, how exactly did you do this? Finding quality, successful guys is very difficult. And they tend to be as flaky as women I find. What have been the keys to building and maintaining such a social circle? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 07:52 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Hamster, part Two.I have regular comprehensive bloodwork run, and since starting the roids I am healthier, much healthier, not just on this or that scale, but on every single indicator of cardiac, and metabolic health I'm looking into getting into this as well, how often do you get tests done? Which indicators of cardiac and metabolic health do you get checked, do you mean the usual bloodwork they suggest getting when on steroids, or are there additional things you like to get checked and keep track of too? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 07:08 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Hamster, part Two.If you don't mind me asking, what dose of hcg do you take and what kind of cycle are you running? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Can't find a better man.make it a point to spout off RP stuff any time you see the opportunity because you know and you want others to know you know This is me. Where does this want come from? Something to do with the 'textbook alpha' thing you mentioned? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/14 04:18 PM |
| 1 | FR: Dread Game in ActionHow did you start spinning plates? How'd you get ramped up from 0 women to where you are now? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/14 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with loneliness as you work toward becoming a top 10% manHow did you build up to so many plates starting from nothing, was it all online or did you go about it other ways as well? Did you work on yourself big-time (gym, fashion, etc) to get to that level? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with loneliness as you work toward becoming a top 10% manAlso deep and honest examination of relationship to ... How do you examine these things? Journalling? I find when I just sit and try to think about them I start to ruminate and feel resentment or regret rather than make progress. Stoicism Could you expand on what you do, in practical terms, to practice stoicism? Checking out the subreddit it appears to just be high philosophy and not accessible things to practice. Basically I can't afford therapy so (right now I) have relentless pursuit of figur… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with loneliness as you work toward becoming a top 10% manThis is a fantastic and actionable answer, seriously thank you. You seem to have a lot of good knowledge about dealing with other men, which I think is a key part of being a fulfilled man. Especially since we know women are less likely to be able to provide the sense of brotherhood, bonding, and belonging that other men can. I'd urge you to please consider making a thread with knowledge you have gained about how to effectively bond with men (I imagine your post above is just the tip of the icebe… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with loneliness as you work toward becoming a top 10% mansince reading Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It What a fantastic book. Just downloaded it based on your recommendation and already read it (only 60-something pages). I think it'd help guys if you created a separate post about your experiences with the 'i love myself' exercise and any other things you may be doing with regards to self-esteem. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do women get so mad when they find out I'm engaged to a foreigner?Feminism is a trade union for prostitution I think this would make a fantastic stand-alone post, would you mind expanding on this idea in its own thread? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 06:52 AM |
| 4 | Dealing with loneliness as you work toward becoming a top 10% manThe suggestions you've offered are powerful but without further guidance impossible to execute for the vast majority of us here. If you have experience with meeting and gaining rapport with high value men, or bonding with other guys at your level with the same level of determination, please consider making a post about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with loneliness as you work toward becoming a top 10% manThe suggestions you've offered are powerful but without further guidance impossible to execute for the vast majority of us here. If you have experience with meeting and gaining rapport with high value men, or bonding with other guys at your level with the same level of determination, please consider making a post about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 06:49 AM |
| 6 | Dealing with loneliness as you work toward becoming a top 10% manWould you turn this into its own post? The suggestions you've offered are powerful but without further guidance impossible to execute for the vast majority of us here. If you have experience with meeting and gaining rapport with high value men, or bonding with other guys at your level with the same level of determination, it would be very well received. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Yes, men do leave the marketWhy useless to meet women to date/fuck? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/14 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Future of TRP: Will the broader population eventually start to wise up to TRP concepts?"if you want my future, forget my past" BRO! We must be on the same wavelength or something. Hadn't heard this song in years and I JUST THOUGHT ABOUT THIS very same line earlier today completely randomly and realized how relevant it is to what goes on here. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsEventually worked up the nerve to approach girls in bars with the intention of being rejected. Did you go with wings or alone? How'd you light a fire under your ass to get started with approaching, which is the most important but most difficult thing to do. Improved my style. I have an older friend who helped me with this, extremely grateful. Any tips? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsFantastic. This really needs its own post. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsHow did you strike up conversations in yoga class? Dance classes makes sense since it's inherently social... Btw what are those BYOB painting, they definitely don't have them in my city but I'm curious. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsI decided to throw away all my old social circles and only focus on new ones. How did you make new ones? I want to do the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsTough love. You're absolutely right. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsWondering how do you know this? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Applying TRP when you have 0 dates, plates, and LTRsThanks for this, it helps. Curious how did 'a somewhat strict nofap/noporn' drag you down as you say? I'm big into that and found it interesting you named it something that drags you down. I wonder if it's been holding me down too without me realizing it. It seems cold approach, day or night, didn't figure in to your strategy. Was that deliberate, you wanted to stay away from that kind of thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/14 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Shit tests cause me to lose interest in women.I don't live in the US/Europe/a western country. I live in one of those non-western, non-feminist countries that you all (VERY mistakenly) think has higher quality women. I wish I could show you how immensely wrong you all are about women outside of the western world. All the things that you hate about American women, these women do it too. Sometimes even more. The only differences are that they don't call it feminism, they don't have the law to back them up as often, and they know how to cook. … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Alphas come first.For cases where its a girl youre sleeping with for the first time, say on the first night you meet her or after 1-2 dates and your intentions are to make her one of your regular girls, do you suggest the first time sex be the self-serving kind or to try to go for her orgasm? First time sex its very difficult to know her body well enough to give her an orgasm, but if I go for the self-serving sex couldnt she get the opinion i am bad in bed and not come back for more? If i dont put effort into ple… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/13 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Alphas come first.You advise this way of having sex without caring whether she orgasms for hookups but not LTR and FWB, why is that? Meaning if its effective at getting hookups to keep coming back wont it be applicable in other types of relationships? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/13 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Metastrategy: Evangelizing the redpill vs hiding itYou mentioned gaming solo or having your friends stand by awkwardly when you want to game. What has been your experience with 'wings', guys who are initiated into the seduction community in some way already? Wouldnt going that route on your game nights be the best of both worlds? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/13 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain strong and productive lifestyle habits even after you start seeing girls regularly?Should I not let them stay over? I know many guys talk about this but I have not tried it because in my city the night transit services (after midnight) are quite impossible. And if she had to get a taxi everytime I imagine it wouldnt be as often she would come by, or am I wrong? Kicking her out before midnight is an option, but then we dont get that long together. Not only do I enjoy long sex, but also middle of night and morning sex. I guess I cant have it all. How do you manage this? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/13 06:43 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain strong and productive lifestyle habits even after you start seeing girls regularly?I've fucked a plates and 5 minutes later meditated for 30 minutes beside the bed if I have forgotten to meditate that day. Thats great! Did you tell them what you were going to do or you just do it anyway? How did they react and what did you respond? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/13 06:39 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain strong and productive lifestyle habits even after you start seeing girls regularly?I can understand physically draining, but why emotionally? (Especially if they're fuckbuddies or casual hookups) How often do you see both of them? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/13 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Addicted to theory. Information overloadAgreed. Any tips to make the transition into doing it easier? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/13 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Addicted to theory. Information overloadCould you elaborate on the difference? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/13 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wronginner game, or cognitive behavioral therapy Thanks for the CBT recommendation. I've actually read a couple of books on the topic and have started recently doing some of the exercises on paper, but which specific exercises would you recommend for me? There are so many. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/13 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wrongThanks very much, so many good points It sounds like you want to cherish a woman. Well, unfortunately for most of us, this shit isn't possible until we've reached a "high level" of Alpha/Game. You can actually drop all pressure and cherish the girl when you've reached the point in Game where just being your true self is highly attractive. Until you become a natural, I don't really think you can cherish a girl and develop crushes for her like that. Unless you're willing to cherish her for the sho… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wrongBrutally honest, much needed. Thank you | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wrongThank you for this | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wrongI recommend spending more time finding quality men to be around. So true. Tougher than I would have thought, but necessary. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wrongNo insult taken. What can you suggest, actionable steps I can start doing right away. EDIT: I think you are very right about this, wow. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 03:58 PM |
| 7 | Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wrongTell a guy who isn't getting laid not to latch on to the first girl he meets, he won't hear it. With guys who accept TRP but aren't able to build a stable of attractive women, they accept that they will get a few months of affection and sex from a beautiful woman and are perfectly happy to do that knowing with alarming accuracy how that relationship will come to an end. If I can't learn to get multiple women in my life, I'll become this guy, jumping from relationship to relationship, each lastin… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/13 11:42 AM |
| 3 | TRP, I want to thank the fuck out of you.A great way of looking at it! Being born into competition and acknowledging that a hierarchy exists. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/13 12:28 PM |
| 2 | TRP, I want to thank the fuck out of you.Curious, which parts of TRP do you not agree with? Still new here myself so interested in seeing your perspective on this whole new arena. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/13 10:09 AM |
| 3 | TRP, I want to thank the fuck out of you.western women Don't you mean all women? If it is part of women's nature? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/13 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Has TRP changed anyone's interaction with female siblings?Could you describe how it would affect relationships with people other than girls you're trying to seduce? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/13 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Has learning about hypergamy made you start resenting other dudes?Can you feel happy at the prospect of your female partner finding sexual satisfaction and/or emotional intimacy with another male? Because, if you are demonstrative of such a felicity (what is being referred to as "compersion" amongst the polyamorists), that constant tug-of-war between desire and fear is no more ... leaving you blithesome and benign all throughout the day. Interesting, I'm curious to know TRP's view on this sort of thing, whether they feel it really is the key to being unbothere… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/13 10:36 AM |
| 1 | NAWALTThis is what I was missing. My thoughts exactly. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/13 09:43 PM |
| 2 | NAWALTThere's a pervasive myth that the red pill is about treating every woman as a definite threat Thank you for this. I was starting to feel overly cynical about buying into TRP so strongly. But this says it right. Certainly not every woman is a threat, but I can still enjoy a cruise with the lifeboats on board! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/13 09:42 PM |
| 1 | "Kinder, Küche, Kirche"What's that? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 03:36 PM |
| 4 | "I'm not a slut." - How much of a red flag is that?more of an "this will be easy" flag, not a red flag. the fuck do you care if she is a slut or not. This could be a whole post on its own. Wisdom here. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/13 08:39 PM |
| 19 | "I'm not a slut." - How much of a red flag is that?Red pill mindset example, right here! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/13 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do the best seducers I have ever met exhibit strong Blue Pill tendencies?What would even be the point of Game if women would be willing to cheat with men who are less alpha than their BF? Many reasons. I feel like once another guy has a minimum level of alpha-ness, he enters the realm of her cheating possibilities. He doesn't necessarily have to be 'more alpha' than her man. If we're so sure that women make decisions based on their feelings in that moment, then of course her definition of what's alpha will change in the moment too. Maybe with some drinks in her the h… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/13 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Why do the best seducers I have ever met exhibit strong Blue Pill tendencies?Great stuff! This is best way to get into a relationship, if at all: with a conscious suspension of disbelief. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/13 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do the best seducers I have ever met exhibit strong Blue Pill tendencies?I feel the same way but can't explain it. What's your reason for this? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/13 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Are Gay Men welcome here?She would guilt them into compliance with her agenda using the same tactics she used against straight beta males. New here. I thought most of the tactics boiled down to providing and withholding sex and the promise of it in ways that would accomplish her goals. What could she use against people who are not interested in sex with her? Similarly, how can an ugly girl that you're not interested in sexually ever control you? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/13 09:29 PM |
| 2 | "How long would you be willing to wait to have sex with someone you cared about" /r/AskMenIf a girl is virginal What would make you believe her claim? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 10:54 PM |
| 2 | The red pill still has a bitter aftertaste long after I took itHow has the red pill affected your mother son relationships? Post a new thread, could be very interesting! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 10:17 PM |
| 1 | "How long would you be willing to wait to have sex with someone you cared about" /r/AskMenhamstering the fact that he let someone that he actually wanted get away How do you feel he lost her? By not fucking her when she 'gave him permission' as he described? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 09:07 PM |
| 1 | "How long would you be willing to wait to have sex with someone you cared about" /r/AskMenImagine that you were sexually abused like she was, and then you found a girl who was accepting of that and didn't mind waiting until you were comfortable. Would you be thankful and feel lucky that you found someone like that, or would you break up with them because you "couldn't please them"? The latter makes no sense. Great point, sounds about right. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 08:10 PM |
| 2 | The red pill still has a bitter aftertaste long after I took itLet go the idea of marriage and kids. Tough pill to swallow, but I've seen this coming for a long time now. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The red pill still has a bitter aftertaste long after I took itThe red pill is simply about an undetstanding, being alpha is merely the successful application of that understanding Got it! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/13 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Thank you for introducing me to /r/childfree, what other subreddits should I know about?/r/paleo is interesting! oh, and of course /r/gonewild[3] . :D I'm on /r/nofap, so that's a no go :) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/13 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Thank you for introducing me to /r/childfree, what other subreddits should I know about?Would you mind elaborating what you mean? I thought there would be a lot of overlap, no? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/13 01:23 PM |
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