Many women when dating have the upper hand because they haven't slept with the guy and are not bonded to him, so they could care less if he goes or stays because if she is doing it right, she's dating multiple other guys. However, when he finally makes you his, and are committed and bonded, women become more emotional and comfortable around him, they are more likely to start ignoring little warning signs, that can later catapult into bigger things. He has to know that he still has to work to keep you even then, and all signs of disrespect and neglect must be addressed with consequences. You are not a doormat and he is not special. This is still another human that you have to set boundaries with and really stringent ones. Don't let 'love" and "feelings" cloud ur judgement, your dignity and self respect is more important.

What are some other strategies for keeping that same energy after commitment yal?