I still have some difficulties distinguishing them sometimes.

After sex, I was laying on the bed with a plate and she started saying stuff like:

"you changed how you behave with me, you used to be nicer and take me on dates (took her to three or four in the beggining) and now i feel like you only want me for sex".

I think i held frame and said like :

"i understand you can feel that way" and she kept going on about it and saying she needs to acess her self respect so I said

"I enjoy spending time with you, but if you dont feel respected maybe its better to move on"

I'm not sure if this is a shit test and I should have AA or if it was a comfort test and how i should have replied better.

I'm not afraid to lose this plate, I just wanted some feedback as it is the first time this happens.

What would you guys have done?