Been friends with this guy for years. The day I met his sister at their house I ended up hooking up with one of her friends. None of his guy friends have done that apparently. We talked on and off for two months (we stopped talking for a week and then started again) and stopped talking about a month ago.

Girl was obsessed with me and treated me like her bf but wouldn’t date me because we weren’t the same religion (although I am half cuz my dad is). She made multiple comments she wouldn’t still be talking to me if I wasn’t half. She expected me to FaceTime her all the time and would flip out if I ignored her for a few days. She was a covid lockdown nut but still still justify hanging out with me even though I don’t give a shit.

She also did some messed up stuff. She recorded a tik tok of us in my bed kissing and made me look like a simp. She showed all her friends (the friend group) before she even showed me. Told me I was wrong to not talk to my dad (she only liked him because it was my only connection to Judaism) despite the fact he’s a deadbeat who’s screwed me over and used to beat me as a kid.

It ended because when we were hanging out she straight up called me racist (im conservative and she’s a snowflake liberal). We ended up getting in an argument and she called herself oppressed and said I have more privilege then her. So I basically said she wasn’t and that her people weren’t oppressed (it’s true my entire dads side is incredibly wealthy). She responded saying her family was killed in Germany during ww2 (so was mine) and blah. Compared to Hitler and called me and antisemite. I just got up and left mid conversation and she sent me a long list of crap. Then wished me a happy birthday two weeks later in my birthday.

She obviously told all of her friends and painting me like a villain. Apparently they are still talking about it a month later.

I talked to my friend about it and he says that he does not like his sisters friend group and does not talk to them. The only reason why he socialized with them the last couple of months was because of me. He thinks his sister and her friends are entitled brats (they all live in Bel Air and Beverly Hills mansions and have that attitude). He called her a week after the incident when I was with him (she did not know) and said she was being ridiculous because of bs she was saying and said to drop her. Apparently his sister came up to him told him and asked why he even hangs out with me and told him not to bring me over. He defended me saying I wasnt the one causing issues.

Even though all the guys don’t care I still feel unsettled going to his place or talking to him knowing his sister hates me.

Should I feel bad about it? Last time we werent talking that one week her and my friends sister barged in my buddies room cuz they knew I was there after my buddy told them to not come in days before. So pretty messed up stuff. I’m talking to other girls and have other plates but after the whole incident of us hanging out that last time I got really pissed worried I’d lose my friend group.

I’m writing this quickly at the office so forgive any errors or rambling.