How do you get out of this dumpsterfire of a mindset?

Pilling_it · 2021-01-01T21:26:22+00:00

Can't say I've gone through something similar, but different matters altogether that made me rethink a lot of things.

As I said, I like this sub because I get to read (I just lurk) things I wouldn't be able to discuss irl without stigmas. But I like it like I like alcohol. It's nice, but harmful in high quantity and too frequently, so when that happens ? Here's what I do.

Get off. Not just this sub, but the internet entirely. Stop hiding behind a screen, and look at life without it for a while (granted, it's hard during covid, but you get me). Focus on your hobbies. Get exercise in. Maybe therapy if you need it. Doesn't have to hit the gym to get ripped, I get way more of a kick doing martial arts, that shit is cathartic.

Get shit done, so you look back at it and tell yourself "did my best, can't do more than that".

ANRthrowawayABF · 2021-01-02T02:19:40+00:00

Few points:

The RP isnt a self pity thing and if it is for you then you are blue pill deep down.
You aren't going to get what you want here in the west, you have to move to another type society.

Rent_Is_Due_Renthog · 2021-01-02T20:35:58+00:00

The stats are what they are, it doesnt change reality to pretend they dont exist. What can change is how you use that knowledge to your advantage. Want a virgin girl? Not opposed to dating asians? Japan and Korea have high rates of young virgin girls and are your best bet. Dont wanna leave the US for a bride but still want to improve your odds? Utah for mormons. Want someone white but different from mainstream US culture? Eastern europeans. Want someone different from mainstream US and you dont care about their race? Muslims and Indians.

My first serious LTR i gained by excluding women by country of origin. I told myself id go for muslim girls and eastern europeans, and soon after I had to pick between one beautiful girl from dubai and a Russian gal, both were great but I made my pick and we dated for 5 years. Play the odds to your favor rather than whine that the odds exist.

youbigsausage · 2021-01-01T22:02:07+00:00

You gotta date other girls. That's all there is to it. It mostly works.

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Chemical_Debt_6127 · 2021-01-01T22:00:10+00:00

Wallowing in self pity is a blackpill stuff. The good thing about the redpill is with hard work and determination you can make yourself more desirable

_Lemon_Stealer_ · 2021-01-01T21:21:33+00:00

RP is incredibly toxic and based around made up statistics by men who can't even read statistics. Get off here and don't get sucked into the toxic manoshitsphere. Plenty of women want to settle down (like a huge majority). Relax, you'll find someone.

Title	How do you get out of this dumpsterfire of a mindset?
Author	arjay8
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	January 1, 2021 9:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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