I know red pill is to create abundance and not care about any one female. But I just want to understand even more how females really think using this one example. Can a girl's perception of you change after you go from weak guy to strong alpha; can she regain sexual attraction that was lost, and can that ever be enough to the point where she would get with you again?

Example that is relevant but it's not necessary to read to answer the question: I took a girl's virginity 3 yrs ago. That was back in my blue pilled days. Weak guy, no direction, depressed on the inside, excuse-maker. But I was higher SMV than most guys my age in my environment, so this girl I met, who was dating her high school "boyfriend" who she hadn't had sex with and wanted out, hooked up with me. I was not a virgin, so she felt comfortable with me having experience. Things went well and that hooking up turned into a year-long relationship. To be technically correct, we never truly "dated," but we were exclusive for all that time and we hung out and did some things together while talking nearly every day.

In terms of physical attractiveness alone, her and I were both about 5s back then.

Long story short, we developed a lot of conflict, mostly because I let my beta depressed self out and lost my strength, started talking about the far future and she got scared, and we had a nasty breakup. She told me I was pathetic and that she feels like I used her only for sex and insisted I needed to change. We exited each other's lives completely and only kept phone numbers as contact method.

Since then, I changed a lot for the better. Discovered red pill, got rid of depression, kicked old bad habits...basically went from a weak excuse-maker to a go-getter and a mentally strong, focused guy. Lifted hard. Have an athletic body and I'm lucky to have a great smile and teeth and hunter eyes. Basically went from a 4-5 to a 7-8. Got with 2 other girls since but nothing serious. I don't know how much this girl can see these things though because she is in a relationship and isn't checking me out right now.

I just want to know from other guys if a girl has ever changed her perception of you and reached out once you went from weak, pathetic guy to strong alpha who gives less of a fuck. Does it sometimes happen? After several years? If she hasn't found good enough?