"Go with the flow"

Missybanana · 2020-11-19T06:13:00+00:00

Spoiler: The flow is probably going nowhere if a man tells you to go with the flow. This is a good article.

MakeURegret · 2020-11-19T13:21:26+00:00

This is a good article. Thank you for sharing!

My only issue with it is, she’s encouraging you to “communicate” at the end as if this is a communication issue.

But rest assured if a guy is telling you he wants to go with flow - having a conversation isn’t going to change his mind. He might tell you he’s changed his mind, but you can’t negotiate his feelings.

A guy would never tell his dream girl “let’s just go with the flow.” No he’d be trying to lock her down asap.

If he says “go with the flow” it’s already dead. He knows how bad it is to say “go with flow.” It’s not a problem of ignorance.

sarahsanchez1220 · 2020-11-19T06:50:10+00:00

Wow. Thank you so much. I really needed this. I’ve been struggling with this exact thing in my new relationship...not wanting to seem uptight or too intense (when I’m neither of those things I reality). But my anxiety over not knowing quite where we stand or where we’re going has been becoming worse and worse. This is exactly the advice I needed. Now that I have my head on straighter, it’s time to have an overdue conversation.

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Title	"Go with the flow"
Author	AdrasteaRed
Upvotes	44
Comments	7
Date	November 18, 2020 6:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jwb4cl/go_with_the_flow/
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