Can you ladies tell me if I should talk to him? I have terrible dating experience and need outside advice

Jinxhourglass · 2020-11-16T16:50:41+00:00

Please focus on working on yourself before dating. Your post history about previous, but recent romantic pursuits is concerning.

Carpedictum · 2020-11-16T17:02:49+00:00

Well... The only info you gave us is that he’s on Tinder, which is pretty neutral these days, and that he stopped talking to you in June, which is 100% proof that he is not interested.

You, on the other hand, felt guilty over “ghosting” him, so much that you felt the need to give a deep and detailed explanation. And then gave him credit for saying Ok?

First, it isn’t even called ghosting after only one date. Next, I’m wondering if you even really ghosted him or if neither of you followed up. Did he try to get in touch with you after the date, more than once, which you ignored? That might sorta kinda be ghosting (which is 100% fds approved to do, btw), but if he also didn’t follow up, you can’t have a mutual ghosting.

TL/DR: Fully agree with Jinx, you need to focus on yourself and forget this absolute nothing blip on the radar of your life.

Title	Can you ladies tell me if I should talk to him? I have terrible dating experience and need outside advice
Author	Educational_Okra_798
Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	November 16, 2020 4:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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