Once you take sex from a man, what do you have to offer?

[deleted] · 2017-09-13T02:35:28+00:00

All of my LTR´s have been asked by their friends if I was a witch because they thought I put spell on them since they wanted to spend all their free time with me instead of them so I guess that I´m good company lol.

When I used to live with my ex I loved making dinner for him, it was one of my favourite parts of the day and he appreciated all the little things I made for him.

BTW,

women are nothing but drama, it's good to stay away

Says the guy that comes to a subreddit for women to stir drama lol.

zurgenfloggin · 2017-09-13T02:16:03+00:00

speaking as a man.

love, compassion, respect, companionship.

Many, perhaps most men get fulfillment out of having a family as well and want to chose a woman who they believe will be a good mother.

the_baumer · 2017-09-13T02:52:13+00:00

I don't want kids so not a problem.
I have my own money from investments and my career, so I don't need a provider, only a lover. Again no kids so more freedom.
That sounds like a personal problem.

1337bun · 2017-09-13T03:17:06+00:00

Not everybody in the world views things the same way as you may, nor do they have the same goals as you. If you are uninterested in long term companionship - that is a reflection of you and your interpretation of the world around you. You are under no obligation to have children or share your income, it's 2017 and you are a free agent with the capacity to be single forever if you so choose.

Anecdotally, my partner's goals are different to yours. He wants children. Despite the social climate we live in, he doesn't want his family's genetics to go "extinct" as he puts it. When the time is right, we will have babies and raise them in such a way that he wishes.

My partner has also found that he is better off financially for being with me. If we were not together he would still have to pay for rent, utilities, internet, etcetera. We live in a one-bedroom apartment and everything gets halved, freeing up a large portion of his income to spend or save on whatever he pleases.

With regards to freedom, there is nothing my partner cannot do - he is an adult and can make his own decisions. Our relationship is not a limitation - but a freedom, and if things were to change he would be out the door. Additionally, when you live in a close proximity to someone, they can get on your nerves. People (of all genders, socioeconomic situations, race, etc) find difficulties in their relationships when they do not communicate openly or effectively - it's just about not turning mole hills into mountains. I cannot deny that some find drama 'thrilling'. As a man, it is your duty to screen for a woman who meets your expectations, and it sounds like you haven't had a good run so far.

My partner and I share a bed, a home, and a life. I take care of the cleaning, and he takes the garbage out. I do the cooking, and he carries the groceries home. We lighten each other's load. At the end of each day, he has someone to brag to about exceeding John's net sales and in the next breath, can talks about the song he listened to driving home, and how it reminded him of a childhood memory. He and I play for the same team. It didn't happen overnight, it took years of being vulnerable and building trust with eachother.

If I didn't behave, he would be on his own and enjoy himself until he found someone who did behave. Figure out what you want in life, and whether a woman can add to that. If she doesn't, carry on kicking goals. Some advice: in lieu of spending your spare time thinking about and hating on women on the internet, or feeling entitled as to what she can give to you, use your time wisely to OYS.

Title	Once you take sex from a man, what do you have to offer?
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Date	September 13, 2017 2:07 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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