Hello all! need advice. Me and my wife has been discussing taking out a loan. We could not agree on the terms of the bank loan so we left the question abit in the air.

Now the bank called about the loan and it turns out she has gone behind my back and taking out a loan in the way she wanted it even though i said i don't agree to it.

She tells me that she took it in her name and she should be free to do so. we have a shared economy but she pretends like we dont right now.

I have told her to cancel the loan but she is refusing so far.

How am I suppose to react? should i be angry and scream or how should I address my wife?

Loan was around 10.000 USD